I am not in a relationship with a woman right now, but like to be in one. But while trying the market I have had several women say "i love you" to me. But somehow I have had the feeling they don't "love me" in the since of liking me. My question is when a woman tells you "i love you" many times should I intrepid it as she likes me or she loves me as a friend and what should I do?
2006-09-08 19:03:40 · 17 answers · asked by bigcheese7268 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can tell more by how she ACTS. If she is kind & respectful to you, considerant of your feelings, shows you that you are the most improtant thing in her life, and is CONSISTANT in her behavior, she is SHOWING you that she loves you.
It's easy to just say I love you & not mean it, but it is really hard to act like you love someone & not mean it. Like the 'ole saying' goes, "ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!"
Watch what she is telling you by her actions!
God Bless!
2006-09-08 19:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by ICUsmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a woman says "I love you" it means that she likes you and she wants to become your friend. This phrase is not meangless. It has got some clue in the heart of woman who says this love to you. To be more specific when she says to you " I love u". Just stop her and invite her in a nearby restaurant and express your willingness that you also love her. At this moment your apprehension will become clear in a sense weather she is serious enough to give you her hands in yours or she is just saying without any intrinsic value of love.
2006-09-08 19:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman looks in your eyes and strokes your eyes while she says i love you she means it. About 70% of woman mean it when they say i love you to a man. When a woman says i love you quickly and happily to you and still looks straight in your it means she just wants to be friends.
2006-09-08 19:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learned this the hard way. Women use that phrase very loosely and can mean it as a friend just as easily as a lover. Most the time, they mean it as a friend.
2006-09-08 19:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by beachdarryl0202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch body language, is she looking at you and is it in a meaningful way? or is it just a quick "bye honey love you" thing? the line between love and just friends isn't very clear these days, but when a woman tells you she loves you, its better to believe her than to not
2006-09-08 19:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by DeAd DiScO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't take the words too seriously. "i love you" is now overrated compared to back then. people use love as if it meant nothing. a girl can say to her friend "i love you" and it could mean the same thing if she says it to a guy... in a friendly way, ya know? so continue dating and if it's a sincere "i love you" you'll know it. it's basic instinct. plus, it only matters if you love them back.
2006-09-08 19:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...i use i love you alot...with alot of things and people..hmm..i think i will say "i love you" to a guy that i really like....or when im in a relationship...you usually dont go up to a guy and say i love you..also if she is trying to tell you how she feels then maybe i love you does mean something...if not i think its just being friendly
2006-09-08 19:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by Ginny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find many woman say it easier than guys do - so it does not mean as much as a guy saying it to a girl.
2006-09-08 19:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u were dating her and she said i love you shed loved u if u were her friend for a long time no date and said i love you its friend i love you but for some reson when a guy says it afer a girl says it it dont mean sh*** y is that and dont say it if u dont mean it it hurts alot less not having it said back to u then having it said and it meaning nothing
2006-09-08 19:10:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They always say "I love you" when they need a big strong man like you to get rid of that spider in the bath.
2006-09-08 19:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋