Ok, so me and my friend are both 13 year old girls with 16 year old guyz. Im already going out with a 16 year old and thingz feel pretty right so far. My friend has a 16 yr old guy who keeps dropping hints about liking her but he beats around the bush about askin her out. Can 16 yr olds and 13 yr olds be bf and gf and have a good and loving relationship? Has anyone of u evr been in this situation? Can u give some tipz plz??
2006-09-08 18:57:17 · 18 answers · asked by The heartbreaker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it can work out. I fell in love at 13 to a guy who wazz 16 and we loved each other deeply. We had to break up though because I moved. and so did he now I dont know where he is. But for sure keep it goin as long as u can ok?? There is no set age to fall in love!!! No matter what anyone says!!
2006-09-08 19:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by lollipop lips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey im 14, and my 13 year old friend is in the same situation as you because shes dating a 16 year old guy. She thinks people judge her and sometimes she doesnt feel like its right to be with him since hes 16. I think its fine to be going out with a 16 year old guy, at the same time the relationship can be really good. As long as you dont do anything he wants to do, beacuse hes 16 he may be ready for more things than you so make sure you tell him what you want in your relationship.
2006-09-09 02:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps, but you may want to hold off. I wouldn't reccommend persuing that. Like the first girl said, I shouldn't talk because I have dated guys MUCH older than me almost twice my age but you will always be on a different level than them until you are old enough to truly understand what makes a great relationship and understand why you are ina relationship with that person.
Someone as young as you should not be too serious now anyway.
2006-09-09 02:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by Zell D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I shouldn't talk because my husband is 15 years older than me, but I think that at 16 you are in a different place in your life versus at 13. I just don't think it would be a good idea.
2006-09-09 01:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most high school relationships don't last after high school. Don't worry about it. My cousin dated a guy 4 years older than her all through high school. When she graduated he lost interest. My husband's cousin dated a 14 year old when he was 18but she dumped him when she turned 16 and got her driver's license
2006-09-09 02:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by charity2882 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i ve never been in a situation like that but age is just a number so if the two people really love each every thing will work out the way its meant to be
2006-09-09 02:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course. a 3 year age difference is nothing to worry about. you can still function as a healthy relationship, it only matters who they are as a person and how they treat you. as long as they're not 18 or something then that's a different story. so go on living life and have fun 'cause you have nothing to worry about.
2006-09-09 02:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no... cuz i am a guy and i know wat i would want if i would be 16 wich i would never do to a gurl but still it will be pretty much over i mean dont be mad but all guys want only one thing and any 16 year old got more stuff that guys need then 13 year old so it will be over sometime
2006-09-09 02:01:08 · answer #8 · answered by snickers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brake them up hes going to collage in 2 years and while in school only 1 year diffreance unleas you can keep a long ditance relationship
2006-09-09 02:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by Hannibal Barco of Carthage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it ok 2 be friendz with a 13 year old
2006-09-09 01:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋