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I just posted a question and some of the answeres stated that a woman having sex with ten guys in one year is not that much ( you can go and read my other question if you wish, I do need more opinions on the matter). My question is, if ten isn't that much than what is considered a lot. F*CK I mean what the hell is wrong with people these days, a woman should not be sleeping with ten guys or more in a year. Where I'm from we call that a sl*t. That sh!t is just disgusting, what is even more disgusting is that so many women agree. I'm actually thinking about retiring my pen!s. If all women were to think this way than we would all have STD's. I figure maybe a couple guys a year is alright, but does anybody believe in relationships anymore or is it just a race to see who can f*ck more people. A competition to see who can die quicker, lol. Now I know it is not all about the numbers, sometimes girls get tricked by guys. But if a woman has any respect for herself she wont be sleeping with ever

every guy that comes her way

Answer 1

Whoa wait, not ALL girls. This girl right here is 26 and only been with 5 guys. I'm not a prude, but you better be pretty damn special for me to even CONSIDER sleeping with you. That just means to much to me. Did I ever want to wait till marriage well no. I mean come on who would buy a car without test driving it? Enough said!

Either these girls who agreed are just trying to be "Funny" and make you think that. But if this is NORMAL that I guess i'm not normal....aww well I can live with that.

Some people have different morals and integrity. That is just 2 of the many things you have to look in a person BEFORE you sleep with them. IF they aren't there, then move on and keep looking.

So please don't believe this to be true amonst many girls, I think it's a load of crap.

In response to some of these females getting there panties in a twist. I don't think this guy is referring to it's not ok for women, but ok for men. He SAID that a couple guys a year is alright, but 10. Read the post better before you start jumping down this poor mans throat ladies.

Answer 2

First let me say I do agree with you. Ten guys! Wow! That is a sl-t. But, I have to say you seem to be a little preoccupied with sex yourself. In a former question you said your 'friend' is flying out and you might be having sex. Then you talk about relationships. What you were planning wasn't a relationship. It was casual sex. It depresses me. Why don't you try to meet a decent girl? Yes, they still exist. I hope you fall in love because there's nothing like it. Whether it lasts for a month or for life. To never experience real love is a tragedy. I haven't had sex with 10 different guys in my life (I have to love the guy first) but, what I've had was pure heaven because I was in love - every time. I wish this for you. Good luck.

Answer 3

I have to agree with you. I think that maybe a teenage girl who does not know any better and who may have low self esteem would get caught up having sex with mega guys but once you are a grown woman, yes, of course, you are grown and you can do whatever you choose but why would you want to let various men inside of you like that. I know that these days women do what men do and try to out do men in alot of ways but this one right here is so dangerous both physically and emotionally. I don't know why some women just give it up to whoever they feel just because... it feels good, there was nothing else to do, he had a nice body, he turned her on... she just felt like it... the list goes on...

It is very sad. I think in a way that is why things are so bad between men and women now. Because there is definitely a shortage of men and us women are just throwing the coochie at men and now we have lost our value.

Answer 4

How about you reverse that question...men do it all the time and double standards are not fair at all...Men who do that are nasty too. I don't think that it's ok for a woman to sleep with that many men in a year, by any means, but there are some situations where it just might happen, but you can't sit here on your high horse and say that women who do it are sluts because men who do it are just as nasty.

Answer 5

I sure am glad I have an inexperienced girl in my life. A guy a month? and that's just counting one year. Could you imagine sleeping with her?

You are exposing yourself to every lover she's EVER had, and all of the lovers they've ever had. That could be 2-300 people! Yikes. She's a ho as far as I can tell.

As Ty Cobb once said,"She must be everbody's good friend because she f**ks everyone!"

And it's just as bad for a guy to do the same thing!!!!! For sure.

Answer 6

Yeah so it's okay for us guys to sleep with that 10 girls but not okay for them to sleep with 10 of us? Use a condom and your problems with STD's are gone. I agree that it seems excesive but for both sexes. I guess 10 in one year and have them all mean something is possible, but unlikely. Lust should be controlled a bit more... To me that is really sexist. I have a friend who takes more than 10 a year, and I still respect her (not b/c she takes 10 a year), thought I think it's odd.

Answer 7

you are right 10 to me are 8 to many, how old is this person 10 in a year by the time she's 50 years old is will be all burned out. if she live to see 50. STD don't play.

Answer 8

I totally agree with you. But you make it sound as though its bad for women to sleep with so many guys and it's okay for guys to sleep with as many women. It goes both ways - people should respect themselves and care about who they are with. I've been having sex for 12 years and I've had five partners total. That's still too many.

Answer 9

I can't speak for all women. I was a virgin until I met my husband. I was raised believing that it was a gift that was meant for the man that you wanted to spend the rest of your life with. I recently divorced my husband and I still believe that I need to wait for the right one again.

Answer 10

I THINK YOU MAKE A WONDERFUL POINT, I AGREE WITH]YOU BUT I ALSO BELIEVE THAT IT SHOULD GO FOR THE
'MEN AS WELL AS THE WOMEN. WITH EVERYTHING OUT
THESE DAYS, PEOPLE NEED TO BE MORE RESPONSIBLE
FOR THERE ACTIONS. BUT THAT THAT THE PROBLEM
NOW DAYS, IT ALL ABOUT SEX. NOT LOVE. AND WE
NEED TO GET BACK TO THE BASIC OF LOVE, RESPECT
AND NOT JUST GET LAID. ETC. IT NOT GOOD AT ALL.