he has many female friends
many of them like him
they spend hours online waiting for him to sign in and that what makes him appear offline most of the time
should i hide my jealousy
2006-09-08 18:28:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they appear online on his forworded emails
i find their online smiley faces only in the mornin and at nite (these r his favorite times to check his mail)
2006-09-08 18:42:16 · update #1
First of all he's a big idiot for doing that. If you think your going to keep him your crazy. He loves the attention and loves the fact that you are jealous. He's not a frickin rock star. (oh, girls wait for hours just for his presence on line.) Those type of girls are just that; little airhead girls that dont' have a life.
Your definitely a smothering person though. Dont be dramatic. If he was into you he wouldn't spend a lot of time on the internet with other girls. He's not for you, for sure. This is a doomed relationship.
2006-09-08 18:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The whole point in having a relationship is being able to be open and honest with each other, tell him how you feel, don't express jealousy b/c he could take it the wrong way, tell him your feelings, if he truly cares about you he'll do something about it. I seriously doubt that it will be a problem if he truly loves you either. Love is a very strong thing. If you and him are strong in your love then this shouldn't be a big deal.
2006-09-09 01:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by raise_your_voice89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. There is nothing wrong with expressing to the guy your with that you don't like the fact that he is chatting online with women other than you and that these women want to be more than friends. Even though he may just see them as friends, there is always the possibility that it can escalate to something more being that they want him and they are chatting with him probably sending him flirtacious messages. Let him know you don't like it. Speak up for yourself.
2006-09-09 01:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do you have any male friends? sometimes its better to give him the same treatment. see how he feels about it. jealousy is a bad, a very bad habit. it kills the good inside of a person and once it gets inside it will manafest and life will not be the same. just try it his way, get u some male friends and let it ride, wats good for the goose is good for the gander
2006-09-09 01:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by p_hibin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear u have nothing to be jealous of first of all hes with u and if he appears off line that should show u that he is not intrested in talking with them. and if he was that easy for some one else to take u really would not want him any way. sit back be proud your the one with him..
2006-09-09 01:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by Ozark American 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys hate when girls do that!
so dont do too much of it, just show some anxiety so that he knows that you love him and care for him and are possesive about him,......
but no need to overdo it!
because we all know how net relationships turn out to be!
ultimately he'll come to you only
2006-09-09 01:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by supriya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy will eventually push him away. You have to be confident in your relationship..but i do advise you to tell him how u feel.
2006-09-09 01:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by Ultimate Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU TRUST YOUR MAN, THEN DONT DO ANYTHNG, BUT
IF YOU FEEL THAT THE GREN EYE MONSTER IS APPEARING'THEN MAY BE YOU NEED TO LET HIM KNOW'
HOW YOU FEEL.. BUT IF HE HAS NOT GIVEN YOU A REASON
NOT TO TRUST HIM. THEN KEEP THING TO YOUR SELF
FOR A WHILE.BUT IF IT CONTINUE THEN SPEAK UP.
2006-09-09 01:32:23 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldnt...i mean he'll get the idea that u like him,and maybe he likes u.so i wouldnt care too much about showing my jealousy.maybe things will work out.=)
2006-09-09 01:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by kimberly z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know wats wierd my bf think its like kinda hot wen im jealous and i think the exact same. but i guess it just us being us. u should tell him. and mabey he'll like it lol
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2006-09-09 01:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by so_totally_awesome13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋