If you are chatting with a guy for a long time...( over 2 months ) and tells you that he has fallen in love the way you are!!! and that he desires to meet you. To make the relationship REAL, because he cant handle this feeling with out having you conjointly. ..
Well that is what is happening to me... I realy "L O V E " this guy that I dont know..and he ask me to meet him... "He ask 3 times for us to meet" and finely I told him Ok!!! but after that last conversation with him, I haven't heard anything from him (a week). I dont know what to think...some of my friends (guys) told me that he probably was playing, but also many of them told me that - If he was playing a game, he wouldn't never ask me to meet!!! So...WHAT DO YOU THINK????
2006-09-08 18:23:45 · 11 answers · asked by LUNA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Well after all my guy dose loves me...
He contacted me and explain that all this time he has been sick..in a Hospital... but even in there he has been thinking about me...
So you see...You can Love a person even miles alway from you!!!
I guess it all depends on the person...
2006-09-12 17:08:02 · update #1
if he contacts u again & still wants to meet then agree however don't go alone. have a friend or friends go to the same location just in case u need them
2006-09-08 18:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by momatendofrope 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think typing words on a computer screen and deciding it's love is a foolish and dangerous game to play with your emotions. It's possible he had no intention of meeting you. It's possible he was not even a man. It's possible he was nothing he said he was and therefore couldn't ever meet. He could really be a 48 year old married woman or a group of teenage boys tricking you.
Listen to your guy friends and value yourself more highly. Computer games with strangers are not healthy, and it should not be called "love".
2006-09-08 18:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi
You don't say how old you are, just be extremely careful about meeting up with someone you have met over the internet. If you do eventually meet up with him, make sure you keep yourself safe by taking a friend along and under no circimstances hand out your address. Good luck.
2006-09-08 19:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has nothing to lose by asking you to meet him so may be he just did it to see how far he could get thinking that you would never agree to it.... who knows he is probably married and just wanted to see if "he still got it" the ability to pick up a girl... dont take it personal....maybe it was a game for him. you shouldnt take online relationships seriously anyways, we tend to fill in the unknown information with what we percieve in our minds and usually dont get a true accurate picture of who we are dealing with. If he disappeared, he's hiding something, dont trust him if he tries to contact you later.....it just means he took time out to get his story straight. good luck.
2006-09-08 18:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
even though u talked 2 him 4 2 months his still a stranger. he might be a 50 yr old man LOL u never know and he just wants 2 get into ur pants and da relationship is SOOO fake!!
2006-09-08 18:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by *islandchick* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You L O V E a guy you don't even know is real??? Smart girl... What do you want to hear exactly???
He could be married, in prison, 13 years old, pathetic geek that lives with his mother... could be a girl who likes to pretend... 70 year old man... maybe had fantasies about you loving him / her anyway and then woke up...
2006-09-08 18:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is a dude. wanted a piece point blank. You dont love somebody until u really know them. like marriage once you live with that person u realise what love is really about.
2006-09-08 18:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by sirsayer21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he got scared
2006-09-08 20:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by Brezzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful what ever you do.
not sure though
2006-09-08 18:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by Bad kitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is playing the field.
2006-09-11 01:19:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋