Can u make your parents die by wishing it?

Question

I am just wondering. When you tell your parent "I hope u die" OR "wish you were dead". I am always saying it to my dad when I get really frustrated and get screaming at him because he is too strict sometimes.. last week a boy in my math class who I used to be best friends when we were little, his dad was killed in a car accident last week, and I know for a fact that this kid said this to his dad one time because I was there at his house when he said it. Also sometimes I think there are kids in my school who wouldnt care if their parents died. I know because we were talking about Michael the kid whose dad was just killed and two of my friends were saying how they always say this to their dads but its no big deal.

Answer 1

yes you can do anything by wishing! christians call it "PRAYING" though, dear. its because God is so stupid, he can't make up his mind how to run the universe, so if you wish/pray hard enough you can make that magical idiot in the sky do all your bidding!!

Answer 2

People die when it's their time to go. I don't think there is much we can do to change that short of murdering them ourselves. Problem is, what if you say that to your dad and he does die? The fact that you may not have caused it won't stop the inevitable guilt that you will feel for saying it. I know it's really hard living with your parents and dealing with their rules and everything. I said some really horrible things to my dad myself when I was growing up. But now that I am out on my own we have a great relationship and the guilt for what I said to him in the past still weighs on me to this day. Sometimes I feel like I'll never be able to make it up to him.

The really important thing here is to enjoy the time you have with people because you never know how much more time you will have with them.

Answer 3

No hon, You can`t wish someone to die. With that said. OH MY GOD!!!! How in the world can you say that to your Dad, Mom, brother, sister or cousin? You should be ashamed of yourself.

DO you have any idea of the pain you are causing your Daddy? What a selfish thing to do. Just because he cares about you and wants you to be safe and loves you, You think it ok to abuse him, Yes Hon, That is abuse.. It is mental abuse.. It is NOT,NEVER,EVER ok to talk to someone like that.. How does it make you feel IF he said that to you? It would hurt.. Hon, God only gives you one Dad and One MOM. They are precious.

I do understand your frustration and that is what is saying these things. You need to find some counseling on how to handle your emotions and anger. You are on your way to being an abusive older adult.. Please, STOP now.. Go to the library and check out some books, Talk to your pastor, School guidance counselor, or someone else..

You need to stop before that point. Take a couple of deep breaths. Walk away. Calm down. THEN, come back and have a rational conversation. ANGER will never solve anything and neither will temper tantrums.. It is tough in the grown up world and if you want to be treated like an adult you need to learn how to act like one. We don`t talk to each other like that.. You must be willing to negotiate..

Hugs and God Bless from Texas {:-)
<><

Answer 4

they don't die coz u wished it or said it but you can end up living your life thinking you caused it (if it were to happen) so may as well start weighing your words. no point living in regret coz freak incidents happen and people get hurt or worse die. my mom passed away in her sleep 8 years ago and though I had never said things like "I hope u die" I had said other nasty things kids say (I was 20 years old then) and I still regret them and feel soooo bad that I said them. So avoid regret and pain just control your temper, parents can be very trying but its up to you to maintain your composure. Lastly, relax - if people died by us wishing it we wouldnt have the likes of Saddam, Osama, Bush running the world.

Answer 5

I ashamedly make this admission.

My step-father cause me great mental and physical anguish. So much that one day I prayed to God to let him die a slow horrible death. Within two years he found out he had cancer and, of course, he died a slow horrible death. That guilt will stay with me the rest of my life. Many more of my prayers have been answered, but I have no intention of ever asking for divine intervention in such a way ever again.

"Be careful what you wish for, you might just get it."

Answer 6

Yes, sometimes saying something will effect it. Especially if there is emotional energy behind it. That is the whole point of all magick spells. There is no meaning to some latin phrase - it is simply drivel. The only meaning it gains is the meaning the person saying it BELIEVES it to have. Likewise with words, putting a great deal of emotion behind the desire for a parent to die concievably harm them, and perhaps kill them.

Answer 7

Please don't say that to your Dad. that is so mean. I never said that to my Parents. but my Dad has always told me he wished I would have died when I was born. do you know how that makes a person feel? hearing that from someone you Love with all your Heart. it hurts. it hurts bad.

Answer 8

No, you can't cause something to happen just by wishing it. But I still think that you should stop telling your dad that you'd like him to die. That's really hurtful.

Answer 9

Yes you can, but you may have to wish it for 40 or 50 years!

Answer 10

Oh, don't worry. You won't kill your parents no matter how much you wish it. They wished your grandparents were dead, and your children, when you have them, will some day have the same wish for you. It's natural. Besides, I'm sure everyone in your class (including yourself) are going to drop your wishes sooner or later.

Answer 11

No, but I wouldn't say it. If one of your parents died unexpectantly, would you want to remember for the rest of your life that the last thing you said to him/her was that you hope they would die?