How do you know that its just lust..and when its actually love...?
2006-09-08 17:34:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was physically attracted to him from the first time we talked. That was lust. When I realized I was also attracted to him emotionally, that was love.
I still have equal amounts of lust and love for my husband. He is my whole world and I can never imagine my life without him in it.
2006-09-08 17:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't always have to have lust before love...sometimes love takes awhile but it can happen without having a raging sexual desire for the other person. That is sort of the difference love is when you want to spend all of your free time with a person because you enjoy being with them..Lust is usually something that ends up being a short period of time and then boredom sets in.
2006-09-09 00:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by FearlessLdr 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lust comes first..
Love is when you can truly not spend your life without that person in it.
2006-09-09 00:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by brunettegreeneyedgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you look at the person what do you see , do you see the person you love first then their beauty or do you see their beauty first then them? if you see them first then their beauty it is love if it is the other way it is lust
2006-09-09 00:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by Remedy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u feel emotionally attached then its love but if u just feel a bodily reaction to the person its lust
2006-09-09 00:47:48 · answer #5 · answered by lanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust mostly most of us like lust not love
2006-09-09 00:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Cool !!! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there must first be lust before there is love.
2006-09-09 00:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lust: Oh I wanna bang you soo bad!
Love: Aww I just wanna hold you all night long!
2006-09-09 00:37:54 · answer #8 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love is when you miss her 2 minutes after she drives away from your place even after she satisfied you sexually.
love is when you feel bad about arguing even if you know you're right because you just don't want to hurt her.
love is her being the last thing on your mind before you drift off to sleep, and the first thing when you wake up.
love is your heart feeling warm and complete when all she is doing is lying next to you.
I am in love.
2006-09-09 00:40:38 · answer #9 · answered by itslate 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For me and my screw buddy it was once a week became 7 nights a week...we were only complete when we were together..In that case that point came in our 4th month...we lived together for 5 years once she moved in..Regret not marrying her when I should have and she said she wanted to too.
2006-09-09 01:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋