even though we did not get sexual
I do nt think that is coincidence
what do you think?
2006-09-08 17:23:34 · 9 answers · asked by 5324 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I am in my very early thirties and I have been married once but the only man I have ever had sex with is my ex-husband -- I was a virgin when I married him and after our divorce I have been abstinent -- I have natural urges but I control myself because I respect my body and mostly God and his commandments
2006-09-08 17:40:25 · update #1
Good for you. You are a jewel rare to be found in today's society. Your sacrifice will be greatly rewarded, of that I'm sure. If I understand correctly men would like to marry you . . . is that right? If I was a man I would love to find a gal with your moral standard and commitment to God. In fact I am abstinent too and I agree. My ex-boyfriend wanted to get married after a few months of having met me. He did not hesitated to commit to me because he valued my commitment to God. Unfortunately we were not meant to be.
2006-09-08 18:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by Missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I normally ignore these questions; yet yours struck a cord for me. I think Your wasting Your life. God doesn't care who You boink, or how often. You want it, go get it. I don't blame You for not marrying those chumps that were sniffing around You, no real fellow would of put up with that abstinent nonsense for "God" for long. You have good judgement sending them packing. Find someone You just Hook up with once in a while, no strings. I don't think it's a coincidence when the same bunch of A sexual type guys hit on a girl known for not putting out. Get out there, meet real men, enjoy Your life; for a nice change!!!!
2006-09-09 02:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You chose the right decision girl, and i want to congratulate you.
I understand your struggles, but always remember that God is our source of our satisfaction in all aspects. even your the longgings of your souls. God actually design sex to celebrate love inside marriage. I believe God has a plan for you. Even you failed at your past he still preserves and concecrate you for the right time and for the the right guy.. God is a God of second chance...Just hold on to obey and please God. He will give you strength to overcomes. For great reward & blessings will come. Be still & pray for this guy, theres someone that God's reserve for you, that will marry and love you more.
2006-09-09 01:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by Purple Chiasm 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl it's just you s.e.x.
mama's secret
and dady's gone go crazy
when he finds out that his baby found her
s.e.x
take a deep breathe
and THINK BEFORE YOU LET IT GO
it's a fact, that once it's gone you never get it back...
hold on to your innocence
use your common sense
your worth waiting for
'till we meet again I'm praying
for youuuuu
2006-09-09 00:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by Starlytefairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you, and respect your decision.
Still, I have sex and I have yet to have a boyfriend who did not want to marry me. I've been married almost eleven years now.
2006-09-09 00:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by beautypsychic 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good for you, you are right!. All men aren't that shallow afterall!. Gog Bless You.
2006-09-09 00:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right.Sex is not the answer to a solid relationship.
2006-09-09 00:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by eugene65ca 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps that's why they always leave you.
2006-09-09 01:25:50 · answer #8 · answered by brainstorm 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you, wow.
2006-09-09 00:30:20 · answer #9 · answered by lilith 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋