He told me I looked cute when I got mad. he found me attractive and that was what made me special.
Now, he said I should have managed my temper.
I though he said he wouldn’t wanna change a thing about me?
2006-09-08 17:06:33 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
looking cute is one thing but the way u handle urself is another. u can still look cute but manage ur temper as he says. u probably do something outrageous or probably u overreact or somethign i dont know since u didnt say but i imagine there is something about the way u are when u get mad that u need to tone down.
2006-09-08 17:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by mayami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a whole different feeling about you know. You never know, feelings are always mercurial. You may say one thing and mean another right after--a rapid change of emotions and feelings. I guess you've been too tough on him or something? Why else would he say such a thing? Or maybe he wants you to stop being angry to control your temper and your health conditions? If so, he's a caring person but I doubt he'd think in such a way. Well, guys don't always keep their promises, remember that. Don't always guarantee a fully promised harmonious agreement. He doesn't like your temper no more, so therefore you must change that unless you don't want to. Ask him why he wants you to manage your temper, ask him what you did wrong. Find out every clue to why he said it and make a conclusion, fast. Best of luck.
2006-09-09 00:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by krazych1nky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being attractive does not make a person special, although you are a cutie. In my life I have dated a few women who have made the same comments to me. It will start out with very small things but will continue to grow. Remarks will continue to be made about how you should do this or be more like that. I came to the realization that these are made out of insecurities of the other person. This behavior will never change and the longer you stay in the relationship the more damage you will do to yourself. You will begin to question your own behavior, the things which made you you, will suddenly become unacceptable and you will be forced by guilt to change because of the need to appease your significant other. Having someone force another to change who they are is the begining of a controlling and extremely unhealthy relationship. If he's not in love with you for who you are on the inside, he will never be in love with you the way you deserve. Good luck.............
2006-09-09 00:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by casey m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is a kind of person who likes some changes, when he first met u, he actually didnt get to know ur realself, that time he liked u, and just u but now he has got to know that love always exists when the feelings and thinkings are mutual, so it' simple as that he just wants u to be like him and being a man he just wants u to act according to him so that he can possess u.
i dont mean to say that he is having an ego problem but dear it' s another way of love so that no one else can have the right on u.
i know as far as ur temper is concerned, u just pretend to be in temper but u really like him.
trust me, it's a personal experience of mine
for a while just do wht he wants & then see it really works.
such attitude of girls give reaally good feeling to boys coz they think that even further u will have his ways and u can adjust in his family.
regards
ruchi
2006-09-09 00:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by ruchi s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's right the first time you get mad it is cute. but if getting mad is an every day occurrence then it is no longer cute and anger management is in order.
2006-09-09 00:25:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes scared that u will try to hurt him r something u do have a temper so what would it hurt if u changed that cos thats not much to change now if it was ur hair r something thats when ill start asking questions
2006-09-09 00:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by Felecia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u need to have anger management love!! i for one cant put up with a nasty attitude... only children are allowed to be mad for nothing. Grow up...
2006-09-09 00:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by frankie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't let him do it. He will just have to learn that you can't change anyone. If he keeps trying you have two choices: 1) put up with it. 2) leave him.
2006-09-09 00:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by wildstar_2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cest la vie
no one is perfect, not you or him, so don't worry, he's got things he can fix too, i'm sure. people are like that
ever heard of that musical, i love you, you're perfect, now change?
yeah, relationships have rough patches, but don't worry, it's perfectly normal
2006-09-09 00:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by fezowez89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way he say is different, he told you are cute just to cool you down. it does not mean you don need to control your temper.
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2006-09-09 00:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋