I heard it hurts REALLY bad the first time having sex
Than i also heard it doesnt.
So, which one is it.
how bad does it hurt?
and does it hurt the Whole time? or just for a little while?
Does it even feel good the first time?
what if your hymen is already broken?
2006-09-08 17:04:00 · 19 answers · asked by STFUbeezy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only reason it would hurt is if you are nervous..you might squeeze making everything tighter and it'll be uncomfortable, You shouldn't be having sex if you are that nervous if you ask me. So if you are not nervous it doesn't hurt.
2006-09-08 17:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you have a lot of questions. Definitely wait until you have them all answered before even considering going through with it. The hymen is irrelevant, and has very little to do with anything. Pain from intercourse can happen any time you do it, especially if the person you are with is not very gentle. If you are uncomfortable with the person or the circumstances, you are more likely to experience pain. This applies to the first and every time you are with someone. As for how long it hurts, you need to speak up if someone is making you feel uncomfortable, or pain. Pain indicates that something is wrong and that you need to modify what you are doing. Ideally you will be with a partner you have some form of commitment with (like marriage) whom you can freely discuss your concerns.
2006-09-09 00:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by sandcatsle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. i'm a dude, haha but i can tell ya a couple things.
First of all the hymen isnt the only thing that causes pain so it being broken isnt gonna mean you're in the clear.
secondly it will most likely hurt hun, sorry. and it will be pretty much for the entire time.
thirdly, you can drastically reduce the pain though by a lot of foreplay to make sure you are plenty naturally lubed (dont use store bought, god gave ya all you'll need). it'll also help if you get him off one time before you actually have sex, because most of the pain you'll expierience is stretching of the flesh
goodluck, and (haha sorry i have to go out on this) dont be a fool, wrap his tool.
2006-09-09 00:17:11 · answer #3 · answered by verbumheros 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who you are if it hurts or not, The pain you feel is your hymen being broken, but most girls like more than 85% break theirs during normal activity as a child.
2006-09-09 00:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by beachchic705 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can hurt the first , It;s all in the technique go slow and use protection and think happy thoughts
2006-09-09 18:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by freeby1011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some hurt a lot
some hurt a littel
some bleed realy bad
some dont hardly bleed at all
some dont hurt at all
2006-09-09 00:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by rickherr10 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is not very pleasant the first time. but it is un- explainable. hard to tell you about but the right man and then it is worth it. dont be in hurry dear. it is nice after, like i said RIGHT MAN , dont rush you are not missing anything if it doesnt have feeling
2006-09-09 00:08:49 · answer #7 · answered by robkim04 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different , my first time i was in a little pain and i got weak in the knees but once you do it over and over it's nothing but pleasure...
2006-09-09 00:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by ELEN G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not supposed to be painful your first time should be with someone you love and loves you if your with someone who knows what hes doing it should be a fantastic experience , most young boys are in such a hurry they have no clue how to please a woman so wait till your married and it should be great.
2006-09-09 00:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are not sure, don't do it! Wait.....you may regret it if you don't. To answer your question, my first time it didn't hurt.
2006-09-09 00:15:16 · answer #10 · answered by Apostolic Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋