I am good at academics and i look cute i have a job and a gentle smile still lady luck is eluding me.....
2006-09-08 16:58:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you tried asking girls out? A lot of single guys wonder why they are single, when they aren't really putting themselves out there. If you have, then maybe you should just wait for the right person.
2006-09-08 17:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW
No Magic, No Secrets:
Stop looking for love. It doesn't work that way. Focus on your self-improvement. Extend yourself to others. Present the best person you can to those you encounter. Love will find you.
Are you a Jerk:
Women are used to dealing with jerks. They have "jerk radar" and special jerk-avoidance strategies. They discuss this among themselves all the time. If you are a jerk or have jerk-like tendencies, you are doomed until you change. It's just that simple.
Flirting:
You should be flirting at every opportunity. Flirting is all about conversation. The way to a woman's heart is through her ear. Hence, you need to speak to as many women as possible every day. You are not rude, aggressive, threatening -- just friendly. A bit of friendly small talk never hurt anyone.
Don't Live for Love, Love to Live:
You were happy before you met her and if things don't work out you will be happy afterwards. So this is the secret. It's not a Porsche, ripped abs or the right pair of sunglasses. You are a pleasure to be with because you are basically happy with yourself and your life. Things are just better when you are around.
Meeting Her Friends N Family:
When meeting her friends and family, remember, you are about to be put on display. Listen twice as much as you talk; drink very little, if at all; and try to keep the evening reasonably short. All you have to do is relax, let her do the work and avoid stupid mistakes.
Friendship:
If you can be successful at becoming friends with a woman you have the basis for building a relationship with any woman. You need to develop the skills and have the experience. Besides, you can never have too many friends.
2006-09-09 00:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by Carl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your personality and characteristics to the unknown girl can only take you so far. Females tend to be rather reserved and wait for guys to make the first move. Just be yourself and approach a girl that strikes your interest and see where you end up. Just don't go after a girl based strictly on looks, that tends to lead absolutely nowhere and in the end is a waste of time. You have to have common grounds to walk on. Opposites do attract, but don't last.
2006-09-09 00:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by Leslie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about self confidence. You have to project the persona that your "the man". Change your wardrobe, appearance do something different. Feel good about yourself. It's almost like everyday is your oyster, you just have time to eat it. Take control and you'll see the benefits in no time.
2006-09-09 00:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol well ur definatly not suffering from confidence issues...but u know...u just gotta have the right attitude when dealing with girls...usually the guys i hook up with are really funny and really witty...humor is probably the most important characteristic a guy can have...
2006-09-09 00:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by fini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont knw why you??? but i can tell you couple of reasons why girl might not go for a guy who is cute, successful and intelligent..
-you might be too cute...most girls prefer macho types.
-you might be too intelligent and successful...so they are kind of intimidated by you..
-poor sense of humour
-sloppy dressing sense
-cannot make good conversations ( girls tend to fall in love with thr ears)
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u knw i knw ths guy who was good looking, intelligent and well placed...he liked me but i didnt..the reason...well he had this obnoxious habit of persisting on the same topic over and over again....he was not much of a good talker..he was plain boring
2006-09-09 00:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by roddur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are too cute and try to hard. Alot of girls dont llike "cute" guys. we like men who are strong and a little rough around the edges.
2006-09-09 00:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by IndigoSapphire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man im stuck in the same situation girls just sometimes don't notice those things at first just stay in there dude and things will happen and don't be shy there are alot of hot girls out there so go and get one dude!!
2006-09-09 00:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause we havent met yet lol no but u just havent found the right girl have a little patience u will find someone trust me
2006-09-09 00:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by Theresa J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u need to be more outspoken. talk to more girls in a nice and gentle. jux don't talk so gentle that they think u r gay. that's probably Ur problem.
2006-09-09 00:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by caramel chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋