I met my lover online. Wasn't even really looking to meeting anyone and just picked him to talk to out of hundreds. We met and have been together for along time. He is married, so nothing can come out of it, but he is the best lover I have had and it's like he can read my mind when it comes to pleasing me. However, as I am trying to meet my mr right and marry and settle down again, I go on one date after the other with some weird ones and some nice ones that reject me. It seems like I am getting no where and I have met over 40 guys in the past 8 months.
2006-09-08 16:42:30 · 12 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was a good girl for over 10 years (no physical contact with a guy at all) and it didn't get me anywhere and I am over 40 so I don't have my whole life ahead of me anymore. I have met over 40 guys because that's what you have to do when everyone you meet is not serious or is weird. I just meet them, nothing else .
2006-09-08 16:51:47 · update #1
the wife of the guy I am seeing isn't home watching the kids, they are long grown and she is busy with her career in the city government. She's too busy to even suspect.
2006-09-08 16:53:33 · update #2
I also met my husband online. We were both married but separated from our spouses and not looking for anyone. He was quite content with his situation and would have stayed that way for the rest of his life as was I.
We talked for over 1 year before we actually met face to face and for that I had to travel over 700 miles since he was in South Carolina and I was in Canada.
I guess I was fortunate that not only is he Mr. Right but he is also a fantastic lover.
We are so in tune to each other that we can finish each other's sentences. I am blessed and I thank God every day for my husband.
It will happen for you when you least expect it. At least that's how it happened for us.
**To all those that condemn us for being with married men, unless they know the whole situation, they need to keep their mouths shut. My husband had been separated for 6 years when I met him. He stayed married because it was cheaper for him then the divorce AND he wasn't involved with anyone. I had been separated for 4 years. That changed when we met. We didn't even sleep together the first two nights we first met. We went for coffee and talked some more. Neither of us where sure we would still be attracted to each other once we met in person. Once we realized we really did care for each other, we both filed for divorce and we got together. There were no children involved because his only child was already married and had a child and my ex-husband and I never had any.
So for those of you who condemn being with a married person (man or woman) get all the facts first. One day it could be you because NO ONE goes around LOOKING for a married person to mess around with. It just happens.
Let me just add - that if there are NO marital problems and one of the spouses is cheating simply for the sake of sex, I don't condone that. In both mine and my husband's cases, we were separated and hadn't lived with nor had sexual relations with our significant others in years. In our cases, the marriages were already over and the vows we had taken were inconsequential at that time.
2006-09-08 16:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I don't know how you'll meet Mr. Right, but I hope you do. And I hope he meets some filthy little whore on line and bangs her night and day while you're home watching the kids. Good luck!
Added - Okay, I'll change my answer. I hope that you meet and marry a wonderful man and he finds an even filthier, slightly older whore who bangs him non-stop while you're out busting your butt to earn good money so he can afford to buy jewelry and other nice things for his pig! Enjoy your future!!!
2006-09-08 16:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its called Karma honey. You're sleeping with a married man...you both are losers and get what you deserve. Start leading a better life and you might just meet Mr. Right. You get what you give.
2006-09-08 16:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by totalstressor 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My dear, it is not right to have a relationship with a married man, neither do u want ur hubby to do that to u right? Thus, take the right step to cut this relationship.
As for finding a Mr right, tough question for me too. lots of prayer and patience and i believe god will send u one. don't settle for anything lower as u might regret later.
2006-09-08 16:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you screwing married men? I hope this karma comes back on you.
Eww. Even your avatar looks like a trashy whore!
And this is for your suck up 2nd answerer..F*ck You! You don't know the history of the asker or the married man she is with. So don't give us your sappy love story when it doesn't apply to everyone else.
Long live Eskimo Joe!
2006-09-08 16:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Too dam picky.. that is what you are..
You like this guy you are banging right?
He is cute ..he gets the J.O.B. done right?
So either you are kinda nutty or are an attention whore who has to have 40 different people tell you how great you are.
Sometimes the best things are right under your nose.
2006-09-08 16:48:09 · answer #6 · answered by Richardnoggin 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you are not looking for someone forever. When you meet someone get to know them and never have sex before you are married.
2006-09-09 02:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by Fred 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join this site below and find mr right
2006-09-08 16:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by yankeeeeeeeeeee 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ive never gotten anything right on my first try. keep looking, part of the excitement is not knowing whats just up ahead. at laest you got something good out of it.
2006-09-08 16:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by mobs8970 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 12:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋