my boyfriend wants me to stay the night at his house and i want to too. BUT the next morning, he's gonna see me without makeup. i feel extrememly uncomfortable about that. what should i do? wakeup earlier than him or what? what do you girls do?
2006-09-08 16:40:51 · 22 answers · asked by flower_boom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he loves you, I doesn't matter what you look like. I think it is actually better to wash your face before you go to sleep, otherwise, you risk smears and globs and possible future breakouts.
2006-09-08 16:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by serenitynow 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about it too much, if he doesn't like you ala natural and without makeup then he isn't worth your time. Besides if you spend the night with him, trust me, he won't be looking at your makeup.
You can still get up before him and run to the bathroom for your makeup. If he gets up first then you can bury your face in the covers and ask him to make some coffee. When he leaves the room you can rush into the bathroom for your makeup.
If your boyfriend wants to spend the night with you then he is not looking at your makeup, I wouldn't worry about it.
2006-09-08 23:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by Dan S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are close enough that you are staying the night with each other, it shouldn't matter if you have make up on. If a man loves you, you thinks you are beautiful no matter what. Believe me, my boyfriend has seen me w/o makeup on, he's seen me in the shower, he's seen me on the toilet and he's held my hair back when I throw up and after all that, he still thinks I'm beautiful. He even tells me I don't need makeup. A lot of guys like the natural look. Relax and just enjoy being with him.
2006-09-08 23:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by Lucrecia2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I let him see me without the makeup I usually wake up first to begin with. He usually finds me in the bathroom putting it on. He thinks it's silly to put makeup on that early in the morning. He has seen me without makeup before. He has seen me with my hair not done. If he don't like you without your make up then he don't need you.
If you would ever marry this guy (or any other guy), would you keep your makeup on for the rest of your life? Would you wake up extra early every day for the next 50 years just so he wouldn't see you?
2006-09-08 23:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by danadeville 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel comfortable with him seeing you without makeup, then you are not ready to spend the night. Don't compromise yourself. He needs to 100% accept you as you are and love you for who you are, if he would be turned off by the sight of you without makeup, then he is not worthy of you!!
2006-09-09 00:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by jediekkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the easiest question I have ever answered. If he really does love you, he wont care what you look like without make-up, and of course he knows you wont have it on when you guys wake up. If he thought that it would be a problem, he probably would not have asked.
2006-09-08 23:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by lonerforever14 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the first time i stayed the night at my boyfriends I was a little worried... when I woke up he had coffee made already and was sitting there stairing at me, then he told me that I looke absolutly beautiful... we've been together ofr 2 years and he still thinks i look the most beautiful when I wake up in the morning!
2006-09-08 23:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by lilmizzerica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no matter how dumb this sounds I actually understand and know how this could be a real concern. but if a guy really loves a girl he really wont care about those 10 minutes in the morning when she looks like ****
2006-09-08 23:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he if he thinks your ugly without makeup on than he's not worth it. I never worried about that. Everyone looks like **** when they wake up. So wake up before him shower and put on makeup.
2006-09-08 23:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by MissPanda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I prefer seeing a woman without make up. Lets face it it's gotta happen at some point. Make love to him first thing when you wake up and believe me he won't notice a thing.
2006-09-08 23:52:51 · answer #10 · answered by lifhapnz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You are so insecure! Looks are superficial. If your boyfriend dumps you just because you look ugly in the morning, he wasn't worth it to begin with.
2006-09-08 23:47:47 · answer #11 · answered by just wants to know 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋