alright, do u think that when somone has a crush on someone who should come to who, should the girl come to the guy, or the guy come to the girl?
2006-09-08 16:26:36 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Traditionally, it is the guy who goes to the girl. But, hey, in this day and age, just about anything goes. If either has strong feelings, he or she should go ahead and do what's right.
2006-09-08 16:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by sportzman1991 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Our culture in the US says traditionally the guy should come to the girl but if the girl is interested and start she will make it very easy for him to come to her. Boy I would love to see that movie, I love Chinese food but don't have anyone else who loves it. ETC.
I don't think it is wrong for a girl to let a guy know she likes him if she can deal with the rejection a man has to deal with most of the time.
2006-09-08 16:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by dayakaur 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i would say it dosent matter. Do you have a friend who knows her? Well if you do just talk to him & hang out with her to. OR you could come to her & ask her a question like "um have you seen my friend John? " & if she says no then just start talking to her BUT do NOT annoy her! ok! OR you could just come up to her & ask her on a date or just talk to her. If i were you, if your a guy, just get the guts & go talk to her. Girls like me love that! If she has to come up to talk to you that means
A. She likes you but shes tired of waiting on you
B.Shes bord & she wants to chat
& C. her friends dared her
BUT if you dont make a move, an other guy will.
good luck!
2006-09-08 16:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by celestcoley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoever feels they have the crush. remember it's only a crush, nothing more so better not pull yourself in too deep to hurt yourself when you finally get the courage to tell them. it's a chance you have to take. the burden of asking will only get heavier with each and every single day, so might as well get over it. i took a chance, and it was worth it.
2006-09-08 16:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh damn the guy should know its his job to but if nothing is happening the way you want it to are you going to continue to wait?? nu-uh! you go for it! and when speaking in terms of a crush it doesnt matter so much as long as the truth be told
2006-09-08 16:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by elemenopee. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sure would be nice if you ladies would make the first move occasionaly. It gets tiresom always having to put ourselves out there, taking the risk of rejection. Step up and be equals.
2006-09-08 16:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by medic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tricky tricky. The girl should present herself to the guy, but subtly, not overtly. Just be nice to him and let him come to his own conclusion.
I know that's not what most people will say...but it's what I think.
2006-09-08 16:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy comes to the girl
2006-09-08 16:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
normally the guy goes to the girl. because they say if its the other way around it makes the girl seem desperate and hard up for a date.
2006-09-08 16:30:39 · answer #9 · answered by hitori_masurao 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's better if the guy makes the first open move, but it's fine for the girl to make the first subtle ones.
2006-09-08 16:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by yahoohoo 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋