Are you in love with someone who is older than you?

Question

If yes then how much age difference between you?

And what do you think... does age matter in love? If someone is 19 years older than her lover?

Answer 1

NO, I'M IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE WHO IS 3 YEARS YOUNGER THAN ME. HOWEVER, I DO KNOW SOMEONE THAT IS 19 YEARS YOUNGER THAN HER HUSBAND AND THEY HAVE SERIOUS MARITAL ISSUES...MAINLY SEXUALLY.

PERSONALLY, I DON'T THINK AGE REALLY MATTERS BUT YOU DEFINTELY HAVE TO BE COMPATIBLE...IN EVERY AREA.

Answer 2

Most people answered with the male being the older person in the relationship, but I think age doesn't matter period after the age of 25 for either sex for being in love. I see nothing wrong with a woman being 19 years older than her boyfriend/husband/lover, and I think if you're in love with someone, count your blessings and just enjoy each other! Age shouldn't matter.

Answer 3

No, age doesn't matter, at least with most men I've talked to through the years. On the other hand, most women are repulsed by a big age difference for some reason. Like when I tell most women that I dated a 35 year old when I was 17, they really get worked up about the subject. Some would even say that I was sick or she was. They didn't know I was in the military at the time and was looking for an experienced women who knew what she wanted. I just wasn't into the younger women what were too emotionally unstable. People should keep their negativities to themselves, including relatives. It's your life, not theirs.

Answer 4

I am married to a man thats 15 years older then me. I'm 21 and hes 36. We have a beautiful 2 year old little girl and for the most part get along great. So I'd have to say no age doesn't matter in love. :)

Answer 5

Yes, I am in love with my husband. He is 63 until October 2nd. And I am 33 years old until March 19th.2007. Age does not matter in love, except for those who are under the legal age of 18.
There is 30 years difference between me and my man. But I love him with all my heart. My man and I have been re-married for almost 4 years. It'll be four years on Oct 2nd. My man is a
sweetheart and he's a cross between John wayne and Clark Gable. He's very romantic. He's got the most beautiful brown eyes I've ever seen. He's still a kid at heart.

Answer 6

My fiance is 37 and I am 21. He is the love of my life!!!He is not rich, it is not about money. I will say however, age does matter. When you consider huge age difference you have to consider the follow:

maturity level
sexual "energy" or ability
Health (one of you will get older faster, and possibly pass away YEARS earlier)


I mean you can't say it doesn't matter. But if you are compatible and can deal with the future (when one of you is 60 and wants to stay home, and the other is 40 and still full of energy) GO FOR IT!!!!!

Answer 7

Yes, my boyfriend is six years older than me...No, age doesn't matter. As long as you love each other, treat one another with respect, and are good to one another, it doesn't matter how big or little an age difference you have.

Answer 8

My boyfriend is about 7 years older than me. As long as the age difference doesn't matter to the couple, it shouldn't matter to anyone else.

Answer 9

Yes, my guy is 10 years older than me. I don't think age matters that much once you're over 25 or so. Before that I think it's kind of creepy.

Answer 10

20 years

Answer 11

Yes, but not much age difference. Only four years.
19 years older? sounds like a gold-digging situation to me. Hope he's not married or attached but I'm sure that he says he's not.