Today i asked a girl out and she rejected me ...... Her name is Jenny and I really liked her I seen her and i knew it was a love at first sight......apparently not I'm so sad how do I get over this?
2006-09-08 16:06:18 · 14 answers · asked by brad_bchs_2010 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just do, you're young and you'll bounce back soon...maybe she wasn't ready to date or maybe her parents wouldn't let her. Don't let it get you down, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
2006-09-08 16:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are always going to be rejections, for ANYONE. Even Brad Pitt got turned down by someone! Don't take it too personally. Try getting to know the object of your affection in a more relaxed setting- just chat, be friends- then see if this is something you'd want to pursue. "Love at first sight" is not always accurate.
Just don't let this one moment define you-- there are lots more "fish in the sea" & you will find one that suits you perfectly at some point!
2006-09-08 16:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad.....that's what life is about, at least you took a chance and you won't wonder anymore what would of happened.......you put yourself out there, and you should feel great....Don't feel bad you're not the first or last person to get rejected.....Don't depress yourself over it and try meeting new people and ask other girls out, just take that as another experience in life, that's all!! Good Luck
2006-09-08 16:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this kind of stuff is normal, u think u like somone and u can see urself with them and yet they reject u and ur completely wrong. love at first sight can deceive ppl easily and when u go through it successfully, ur a lucky person. just dont worry about the rejection, theres someone out there for everyone. take care, peace out.
2006-09-08 16:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't be your last rejection. I'm not sure how well you knew her, but maybe you're not missing out on anything. If you're a decent guy, have some comfort in knowing that SHE'S the one who's missing out. There's plenty of fish in the sea and I'm sure she wasn't the best one!
2006-09-08 16:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by chocolate-drop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this is hard to do (trust me I've been there) but you have to just pretend that nothing happened and just think of her as a regular girl. not as a girl you asked out just another person. keep in that mind state until you get over this. and eventually you'll like another girl. remember, don't get too hung up on the next one either. if you follow my directions i think that you will have a good "recovery"
2006-09-08 16:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by chef_la_taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try meeting someone new. Yes, it is depressing whenever you express your feelings to someone but they don't feel the same about you. I say try to just be her friend and get to know some other girl. Maybe some girl that you barely noticed can be the one
2006-09-08 16:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by shante14mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm well if she rejected you then move on if theres anything that i hated about my past was going and trying the same girl over and over again
2006-09-08 16:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by alex h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont worry about it there are many girls out there and when the girl you are spose to be with will feel the same way about you ase you do about her ok, it sounds like you just have a crush, bless you
2006-09-08 16:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by me not u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to another girl so that you can get the focus off of her. Your young and you will be okay....you just gotta move on.
It will pass..trust me!
2006-09-08 16:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by StormyRain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋