we almost had it u know but at last i didn't want to we skip school for 2 days i skip monday when it was just me and him i got suspended wednesday and i skip again on friday. the school called saying a boy called and my parents found out my mom cried for days my dad hit my slap me and chok me on my thort then he went to the guy's house saying "YOU THINK U'RE READY TO HAVE A BABY?!" My dad cried for days first time i hear him say that he cares about me. now again 4 or 5 mouths pass my parents still don't let me go out because i lost thier trust but to day on friday at school my ex wants to go back out with me but he stills skips school and drinks he's in 9th grade i'm in 8th grade i STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM SHALL I GO BACK OUT WITH HIM OR JUST BE FRIENDS WITH FEELING HIDDEN? HELP ME PLZ
2006-09-08 16:06:06 · 17 answers · asked by chica sexy LOL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't grow up too fast chica! Don't be putting yourself in a position where you later on in life will look back, having to say that you never did all the things that other kids did. It may not seem as such to you in this moment, but this is one of the best times anyone can have in their lives. Enjoy it and hold back as much as you can on the things you can always do later, but don't hold back on the things you can do now and for which you will feel a bit or totally embarrassed for when you have to do them later. Get the picture?!
2006-09-08 16:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by groovusy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 00:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by Devorah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I am going to sound like a mom, because I am a mom. First of all, it is evident you have been skipping school because you can't spell.
Now, girl...what kind of future are you going to have if you depend on a guy? Especially a guy who skips school and will have no future except for alcohol and drug rehab clinics?
Your PARENTS love you. That GUY is using you for whatever he can. NO to the EX, and KEEP YOUR PARENTS TRUST. They are around to help you in life. You owe them YOUR LIFE. They love you and you are frustrating them.
I have a teen age son, and I will say that I keep a short leash on him for a reason. He is 16 and no he will not be getting his driver's license until his grades have improved. He demonstrates the proper use of a broom and can clean up his room and bathroom. Why? Because I am trying to prepare him for the reality of turning 18 and actually trying to turn out a fine adult into this world.
That my dear is what your PARENTS are trying to work for. You to grow up into a beautiful, intelligent WOMAN. Not a girly-girl...but a mature, loving, kind woman who has a vision for her future.
Do not despise the reproving parents, they are trying to keep you from self destruction.
2006-09-08 16:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by Marilyn C 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop seeing him and get your butt back in school because you can not even speak english let along write correctly. The saddest part of the whole thing is that you are probably going to get pregnant and pass on the stupid gene to your baby. Then you probably will try again to have more kids just because you like the attention and those kids won't be any smarter than you are. Please go back to school and at least learn to read and write some english.
2006-09-08 16:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by Dalton125 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweety I am soooo sorry, but after reading theat post, I beg you to stay in school. Bf in 8th grade, wth? What happened to not dating until 16, and no I am not old I am only 26. And for him to want you to skip school with him, he just wants you to be as dumb as he is, THINK ABOUT IT. Now I won't say you are doing dumb ish bc you are young bc when I was your age I hated that ish, but I will say sometime you got to THINK with ya head not your heart. You have too much going on at this point to be held down with a BOY. Believe me H.S will be a whole other world and this will be all behind you and you will be happy to have your pick and choose. Many women can protest to you how bad they wish they waited to share their treasure, ask some, no seriously ask some old heads around you. Don't be ashamed they already know you want to do it. Regardless of your decision please take your butt to PLANNED PARENTHOOD, if you are grown enough to make that decision be grown enough to take responsibility for YOUR BODY. You will learn when you get older but I want you to know now, A MAN CAN'T RESPECT A WOMAN WHO DOESN'T RESPECT HERSELF. And you are talking about your parents trust? girl they gave you their total trust by even letting you have a bf? they need to chain your *** to a chair and make u read a dictionary. Let me quit, I will let the next person continue. Lastly, apologize to your parents and tell them whats going on with you.
2006-09-08 16:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by uthinkso 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never let a boyfriend come between you and your family. At your age there are plenty of guys that you can be with who are making a positive move in life. Yeah, you're young. Have fun but avoid bad decisions.
Why would you want to put your parents through that heartache again?
2006-09-08 16:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by aQTinMVny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in some circumstances rules meant to guard people finally end up harming them with the aid of fact life basically has too many gray aspects. Its sounds like no remember in case you should or shouldnt be you arent getting any credibility. Do you have acquaintances who could make an nameless telephone call to CPS? in the event that they're getting distinctive calls from distinctive numbers and places of people claiming to have first hand information they make take it extra heavily. I comprehend its somewhat unethical yet this is my honest advice. additionally come across a criminal professional, yet are not getting a flat cost one with the aid of fact they virtually continuously screw you, as they gets a commission no remember what. your county website might have some stable components. And 0.33, you and Grandma ought to be persistant. in some circumstances we will not get ends up in one day, yet once you politeltly and respectfully keep on the athorities and he or she does besides then you certainly ought to get outcomes. that may not a subject the place you should ought to watch for outcomes, its an exceedingly grotesque actuality. your ex spouse is being irresponsible, courts tend to prefer mothers yet I actual have faith that the certainty frequently prevails even nonetheless we hear various horror thoughts. Its overwhelming, don't be afraid to talk to people or too proud to lean on people, the help is accessible, do basically no longer provide up.
2016-11-06 22:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dear plz listen to your parents as you are still a minor girl and better concentrate on your studies. If you got settled in life even your parents will encourage you and more over even he is also in school and tell him if he really loves you ask him to concentrate on his studies.And be as friends.And if you do all these things in this age you may have lot of health problems in future.
Plz as a sister iam telling you dont spoil your life.
2006-09-08 16:14:36 · answer #8 · answered by NANI 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you what they found out you was having sex with that dude and no you have to earn your parnets trust againg a boy is not going to be ther 4 you all the time
2006-09-08 16:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by shay t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should stay away from him. He's a bad influence and you need to concentrate on your education. It's going to be very important for your future.
2006-09-08 16:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by Asia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋