i can talk normally all day long. that is, until i run into the guy i like and start talking to him. i find myself saying things i'd never normally say. i can't think straight. and then when i walk away i feel so stupid. all i can think is "why did i say that?"
is there any way to stop this? he must think i'm retarded
2006-09-08 15:59:01 · 20 answers · asked by monkeygirl244330 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been through that. When you knda like someone, yo'll say things without thinking at all. As you grow more comortable with him, you'll stop.
2006-09-08 16:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by kaykay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you not use upper case at the beginning of your sentences and when using proper nouns?
Believe it or not, we guys like smart girls and also girls who take the time to do or say whatever they are presenting in a well thought out way.
Perhaps you have unconsciously bought into the idea that you must appear less intelligent for the man to feel good about himself and therefore like you.
Trust me. Talk to guys as you do with your college prof and you will meet high calibre guys.
2006-09-08 23:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by MyLoverEmily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u get nervous and u feel ashamed of urself, dont worry, this happens to girls and even guys all the time. dont worry, ur NOT retarded, being nervous is normal and part of life, sooner or later the two of u will get the idea of talking to each other and he will understand.
2006-09-08 23:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by Cecilia ♡ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that you talk stupid,its because your nervous and you do not know what the guy thinks of you and your trying to make a good impression.
2006-09-08 23:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know what you are going to say before you get up to him. You don't have to jabber all time. Give HIM time to talk and then join in with his subject. Don't try to make up things to say. A good conversation will flow if you will let it. Be patient, with him, and dont try to be cute or coy. Pops
2006-09-08 23:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha it's because we dumb ourselves down when we talk to guys... hoping that maybe they'll think its cute if i dont know what im talking about... you can't really stop a bad habbit... just try to caution yourself not to talk that way when around guys, and over time you should be able to drop the habbit =]
2006-09-08 23:01:38 · answer #6 · answered by uhd0rableo8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of looking at him look at something else, look at the sky,someone behind him,anyone this will work,trust me.and try to note the stupid things he does, and in your mind laugh at them.i think this will work.but first one ,yeah,it will.
2006-09-08 23:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by tf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there isn't a way for you to stop it but i can tell you he knows that you really like him alot and he probly thinks its funny to listen to you talk
2006-09-08 23:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do that around girls so you are not alone. You should try to stay calm. It may be hard but it will take time to learn to stay calm.
2006-09-08 23:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by Hi!!! I'm jon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just nervous it's normal.
2006-09-08 23:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by Love or hate? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋