at first i never had anger and now i do. i dont talk to him that much but whenever i try to we get into a stupid insensitive argument. i cant look at him in school with out getting mad. and i start to get mad at him and myself for some reasons that i ant explain. ive tried not talking to him all together, but i find it to hard. the only time i talk to him is during french and even then i cant hold back sarcastic or negitive remarks. ive tried doing that saying " if you dont have anything nice to say than dont say anything at all" but then that gets past me and i say something that makes me angry that i regret later on. any advice?
2006-09-08 15:57:18 · 17 answers · asked by Scarlet5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've got some unresolved issues to settle between him and you, it sounds like. Anything that's been left unsaid or undone between the two of you? You might just want to have a quiet talk somewhere where the two of you can openly let everything spill, and hopefully pick up the pieces in a civil, mature manner.
Beyond that, time is about the only thing that's going to help. That and start seeing other people and/or making the effort to do some meaningful things for yourself.
2006-09-08 16:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you figured out what you are mad about? Besides him being a guy and being the ex what are you mad at him about? Was the break up bad? Was he a jerk? or do you still have feelings for him and now it has turned to anger? In order for you to figure out how to get over the anger, you need to figure out the source or the why. Once you have figured that out you can decide how to proceed and maybe ask another question.
2006-09-08 23:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by Sheila V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviouusly, your ex did something that is hard to forgive. Now, I said hard to forgive, but not impossible. Find aa way to work it out with yourself and move on. Anger is the number one cause of stress. I held a grudge against my ex for a year, but I found out I was only hurting myself. While I was busy being angry and childish, he was enjoying his life and moving on.After i grew up and got over, I found a very sexy college mate to help me forget all about him. I have two boys by him and we are getting married July 2007.Now my ex is walking around with the grudge on his back because I have moved on. Get your revenge by growing up and moving on. Put him completely out of your life. Let someone else replace him. It always make men mad to know they are easily replaced.
2006-09-08 23:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.shauncy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him, avoid him at all costs. By you getting angry you are giving him the power. Give yourself time to get over the hurt of the loss of the relationship, and you never know, once you are past the hurt he may become a friend that you can turn too.
2006-09-08 23:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Sweetie the best way to get over anger is to forgive. He might be immature or insensitive and now that he is your ex hes not your problem anymore. So wish him the best and get involved with someone new
2006-09-08 22:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by david k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seven shots of teguila and a case of beer. Just joking of course, but it sounds like you both get on each others wrong side. I'm sure there are still feelings, but you will have to decide whether you are going to move on or stay in this funk that you are in. You said you're in school. You have your whole life ahead of you, don't waste it on this little, yes! little scuttle. One day in time you will look back and say to yourself, "Boy, was that some crazy sh--!, and laugh.
2006-09-08 23:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by Steve R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to ignore him. you must still like each other or there wouldn't be all that anger. there's a fine line between love and hate.
2006-09-08 23:37:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he makes you that angry why don't you just leave him alone and look for someone that will give you joy. life is too short to allow one person to stress you out so much
2006-09-08 22:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by Ani - kalabar girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are still getting mad at him, then you still have deep down feelings for the guy. look for someone new. that is the easiest way to get over it.
2006-09-08 23:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by gary n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that the anger only hurts you.
2006-09-08 22:58:49 · answer #10 · answered by Fulltime in my RV (I wish) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋