Today we had a pep rally at school and my boyfriend wanted to go outside to smoke with another guy. That guy and I are his only true friends at the school we're at and he gets picked on everyday. When we were with that guy, he pretty much ignored me. The conversation was between them, but he wanted me to walk with them and sit with them, but they both left me out of the conversation and I felt alone. He also didn't get mad when a girl slapped his butt and a girl sprayed perfume on him. He was walking side by side with that boy and I was walking behind them. I also missed the bus today afterschool, because my boyfriend and his new friend wanted to smoke and wanted me to go and I had to get a ride home from the nun at school. When we were hanging out alone in the building, he was being all bossy, "let's go here, ok let's leave, ok how about we go upstairs, and so on. I feel like I'm not happy anymore, and I also feel he always wants his way. I don't know how to tell him how I feel.
2006-09-08 15:55:35 · 11 answers · asked by +♪♫ rip my jeans.not my ♥ ♫♪+ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like a typical highschool????
2006-09-08 15:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by rapid57702 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is very important in a relationship....I think you should forget this guy and move on, he doesn't take you seriously, and if he lets girls do those things to him, my question is, what else does he let them do to him? When I said that honesty is very important in a relationship I meant that you should talk to him and tell him exactly how you feel, don't be afraid.....and if you're afraid to talk to him then that won't really work, if you're with a guy and you're afraid to talk to him, that isn't a good sign!
I say ignore him like he ignores you when he's with his friends, and then he'll know how it feels....but if you don't want to do that then just talk to him straight, but trust me I think you deserve better, that's why I think guys treat us girls like dirt, because we always end up doing whatever they want, but we should learn to speak up, other wise we will always be stepped on.....Good Luck
2006-09-08 23:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means tell him how you feel. He is just being a young macho boy and he has to show his buddy that he is in control. Sounds like you may have yourself a dud. Tell him, watch his reactiion, listen to his excuses which will probably take on an angry tone....... and take it from there. Pops
2006-09-08 23:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. The longer you wait to tell him how you feel the harder it gets. I wouldn't let a guy treat me like I was a puppy.
2006-09-08 22:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by lilpinay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Command the respect you deserve.
2006-09-08 22:57:55 · answer #5 · answered by Melisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him. You are the lady, which means you have the upper hand, usually.
2006-09-08 22:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by ineedanswers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this man isn't meeting your needs then move on to the next guy. he needs you a lot more than you need him.
2006-09-08 22:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-08 22:56:25 · answer #8 · answered by whatever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him after you talk to him first.
2006-09-08 22:57:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus like dat song torn...gurl let him go..move on!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-08 23:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by --->*FaFa*<--- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋