Sorry, I know you said ladies only, but I understand boys better than you (having been one and all).
He was not trying to insult you. He genuinely believed this was a good pickup strategy. He will continue to think that until someone sets him straight. What you need to do, in order to spare others from this type of harrassment, is:
1) Never, ever, under any circumstances, actually go out with someone after they say something like that. Not even if he's really, really hot. It will just re-enforce the behavior.
2) Don't hit him, or get mad. For some reason, these will both be interpreted as "flirting". The ideal way to handle this is to start laughing. Make it clear you are laughing AT him because he's a dork, not WITH him because he said something funny.
Boys hate being laughed at.
2006-09-08 16:07:54
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answered by abram.kelly 4
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boys piss of boys too, but this guy wanted to have anal sex with you.
I swear, a lot of boys pissed me off and I wished I'd kill them, but atleast these are words, I'd probaly be pissed even tho I am a guy.
I had so many people pissing me off throughtout years of my life, but I don't complain about it, because I can't always go on my comp do these stuff and talk to friends about it. This is almost like nothing, he's horny, its not like they came up and stabbed you, like how someone did to me and many others things that I don't have time to talk about.
If I were you, I'd think wants you to have a fat @ss from what he said... This boy was just having a horny day like how girls have bad hair days. It doesn't matter if you have a fat @ss or not, because a lot of boys like it.
=) You got me spending my time on the internet telling people about my probelms, I'm kidding, I barely do this.
2006-09-09 10:51:54
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answered by Anonymous
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Hell NO, File charges against him for sexual harrassment, Did you know that if a guy looks at you in a certin way, that you can file rape charges on him...He's raping you with his eyes. In court it will stand just as that, We girls all know when a guy says something about our bodies that the only thing on their pathedic little undeveloped minds are'("What I can do to that)".
2006-09-08 15:58:53
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answered by Anonymous
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Just brush it off, all men are like that, it is human and in their instinct.
Hope u find a true gentleman, if they havent gone extinct
2006-09-08 15:52:28
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answered by sunflare63 7
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I would laugh to not to look too embarassed but yeah I would be mad
2006-09-08 15:52:26
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answered by shante14mimi 2
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u kno what if i knew him for reall his ballz would be touchin the floor right now and the and he b in the hospital and the only thing the police officers would find is a pair of shears that say "snip snip" on each blade heh heh me and my devilish ideas
this is for the dude that that was b4 me wtf makes you think that dude is black that sum racist shet
2006-09-08 15:54:12
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answered by ɷ▫▪вяøκeи;;♥ иøт đefeαтeđ▪▫ɷ 3
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yes it had happened but more like this:
I walk by
boy:ddaammnn
me:what
boy:you got dat *** every one want
me:what did you just say to me
boy:come on girl let me get dat
good thing i had water and pored it all over him
2006-09-08 15:54:51
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answered by OoO_manda_bearz_OoO 2
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Boys will be boys...you're obviously a good looking girl, get use to it.
2006-09-08 15:50:56
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answered by Mrs. Doe 1
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hell yea i'll get mad cause boys do that to me at school i be want to beat the **** at of them
2006-09-08 15:53:02
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answered by Wynekia S 1
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depends.
if it's my friend and we just messing then no. cause i talk perverted with my guy friends for fun.
if it's a guy i dont know so well then yeah.
if it's a guy iv enever met then hell yeah.
2006-09-08 15:51:29
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answered by Anonymous
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