are boys really that shallow? Are looks really that important? Is a thicker girl unatractive?

Question

A girl thats 5'6 and a thick..? a girl with short hair...? whats up with guys and long hair? -.-

Answer 1

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some guys will find you attractive, some won't. Just like you'll find some guys attractive and some not.

A thought that you might find useful is the understanding that any guy you find attractive could conceivably be the recipient of all your love and kindness. But if he, because of his genetic makeup or whatever, doesn't have the good sense to find you attractive too, then he's not going to be with you, and consequently he'll miss out on all your love and kindness. Too bad for him.

But it's not for you to feel sorry for him. That's his problem, not yours. Just move on. Eventually, you'll connect with that special guy who has the good sense to let his heart lead him to you, and the two of you will be happy ever after.

Just be patient, and carry a big broom--you know, to sweep aside all the guys who aren't right for you.

Answer 2

Guys are all different. You will find some that like a thicker girl, where others only want little tiny girls. I have known guys that preferred short hair on a girl, but you are right, most like long hair. Don't know why. It is just personal preference. Girls are the same way, though, if you think about it. I don't think it is shallow. Would you want to look at someone that you don't find attractive all day? Your personality has a lot to do with making you attractive, so I am not just talking about physical attraction. Most men I talk to say that they would prefer a woman with a really good personality and good looks over a woman that they can't talk to but is gorgeous. You just have to find the right man. Trust me, they are out there.

Answer 3

Some men can be really shallow, but not all, yeah. Looks shouldn't be important.. I mean someone could be the most good looking woman in the world and be a total prick, it should be personality that people care about more. A thicker girl.. Personally, still going with personality, yeah. Hell, they could be pretty 'thick', but if they had a good personality, I wouldn't care, yeah. Men and short hair.. who knows, some men just like long hair, like some girls like short hair, yeah..

Answer 4

Some boys are shallow, but the good thing is skinny girls and long hair started to get played out. Most boys at my school like thick girls (for example: a girl with thick thighs and nice waist, not to mention the big butt) The bad thing about this is that skinny girls aren't as atrractive as the thick girls to most boys. Trust me boys now of days love a girl with a big booty and juicy thighs lol

Answer 5

there is nothing shallow with guy wanting a thin women
no more shallow than with a women wanting a built and strong guy with no gut
the fact you do not fit in a catagory for 95% of the male population of desire means you either drop weight or target that 5% who do like them thick ( and it's not going to be the hunky guys you want .. )
there is the saying....
water seeks it's own level
indeed take a good look at couples and genrally you will see parity
except for the really hot girl and tubby guy
then you KNOW it's a money / trotphy wife / GF issue

Answer 6

Baby, any boy who dumps you for the way you look is just a child - cause it's not looks, love - it's chemistry.

I can see a pretty girl and feel no attraction whatsoever, and I can see an attractive guy who is shallow and vapid and feel not the slightest bit of love for him. Sometimes it's an outgoing and slightly thicker girl that makes me go gaga.

It's the sparkle, love, the confidence, the libido - and where looks factor in is just part of the game.

Answer 7

Yeah, some guys are totally that shallow. There was a young substitute teacher we had and I was one of those girls that was 5' even and 165 pounds. Kinda chubby but the fat was evenly distributed so it's not like I was too unattractive. Just average looking. But I wasn't as skinny and 'pretty' as some of the other girls in my class so he gave the skinny popular girls more attention and basically ignored me. If I wasn't in trouble he'd totally ignore me. He finally got fired from the job for doing it.

Answer 8

boys do seem to be shallow..it's all the peer pressure though.........but we are all shallow...
girls don't have to "do it ' to be popular......
looks.not important , but thats just human nature......
Thick ? heavy ? people are shallow if they can't get beyond this .but .once again ..that's the way people are...........

Short hair is nice..depending on how short...
Guys don't generally like really short hair on women.......

Long hair......again ..it's wired in .long hair is feminine........guys like that...

I know that people who read this will be uncomfortable with what I'm saying and I agree with the writer.....but there have been volumes of studies made on the Attractiveness thing.....

People are wired to be attracted to symetry....
strength.......femininity (in females ) ....and shape...it's sad but true..I am not like the others though.i have met many beautiful women who were too in to themselves..and the same with guys.........
I think ,in general , people should overlook the things that they seem to believe are important..

All women are beautiful...queens......and we should treat them as such..........

Answer 9

Personally, I like long hair, but shot is cool too. As far as the thick, so long as you're not morbidly obese theres no prob. Looks are a plus, the mind is what counts......

Answer 10

Boys like pretty skinny woman with long hair. If you want nookie get it from a clown or a pirate. Male prisoners will work as they aren't too picky since they can't be with a woman in prison.