What do you really think about anonymous sex; What I mean is safe sex but with someone that you don't know and will never get to know; Should it be left to the imagination or should you go for it.
2006-09-08 15:35:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course it is a personal choice, but since you asked, I will give you a different vantage point.
At first, anonymous sex may be exciting and fun. After time, it will take away from the intimacy with your own partner. It soon becomes just a physical pleasure, rather than a love-making experience.
I think imagination and fantasy is normal and makes your sex life with a steady partner interesting. There is no harm there, so perhaps you should cut the risk and go for what you know is the better thing to do.
2006-09-08 15:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by lynnemaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey it's all up to you. Don't worry about what other people think. I happen to believe that one night stands or so to speak can be better than dabling around with people who may get obsessive. If you are not looking or a relationship then it's a good way to be sure there will be no strings attached. Just make sure you take every precaution to avoid the oops pregancy. I almost got married to a guy once who ended up breaking it off because I was the only girl he had ever slept with and he decided that he hadn't had enough time to explore other people. Some people, are perfectly happy being with one person their entire life. And others like to say that they've tried it all. You can learn a lot from experiencing different lovers. Different tecniques, although you can learn that from a book. Some people learn better from doing. I don't think that one person is a slut because they have slept with a lot people, or that they have one night stand and meaningless sex. It is to each their own, and it is not the rest of the worlds job to judge you. I think you're a slut if you brag about it, if you spread it all over. If no one knows how many people you've slept with then hey you're set. Don't talk about it. I think the sex in my marriage is that much better because he and I had prior experience. If you want to go for it, go for it. Just be careful!
2006-09-08 22:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean, like, a hookup? In theory, they're okay... just having a little fun, no strings attached, wild, and best of all, you don't even have to get her dinner! Well, it kind of sucks, because usually the girl gets attatched. If she is willing, when you just meet her, to take it back to her place, then why not? She suggested it. But, don't think you can automatically get a girl to come back to your place. The worse thing that i've ever heard of happening is girls going to the guys apartments afterwards, proclaming love.
So, if you do do it, take it to her place, be safe, be kind, and don't make her feel bad. If she feels bad afterwards, she should have thought more in the first place before hittin the sheets, so to speak.
2006-09-08 22:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely go for it if you are single. Does it really always have to be meaningful. Heck , I bet most marriages are based on having sex-just to have sex. I truly think people don't have the time to care about each other so much these days. What difference is it if it is with someone you don't know?!!?!?
2006-09-08 22:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by shane k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live in Nevada. We have legal whorehouses here, right out in the open. It's all pretty much anonymous sex, isn't it? Personally, I like it that way. You go in, choose your girl from the line-up, go to her room, negotiate the price for the desired services and do it. Your outta there when you're done. No muss, no fuss...
2006-09-08 22:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by christopher s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to get all sex ed on you, but there's no such thing as completely "safe sex". You can contract herpes or genital warts even while using a condom. And, condoms have been known to break. How would you feel about being somebody's "Baby Daddy"?
I'm totally not a prude. Just be careful.
2006-09-08 22:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called the swinging lifestyle. A lot of people are into it. Singles and married couples alike. It's not considered cheating because both are involved. It's safer than meeting in a bar because they kinda stay with the swinging crowd. Swinglifestyle.com is a good site to try.
2006-09-08 22:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by Go Rush! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, but be safe about it. Make sure you use a condom, anonymous sex isn't worth it if your pecker falls off.
2006-09-08 22:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be able to do it. I think if that turns you on then go for it. As long as it's safe sex I guess it's fine.
2006-09-08 22:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it expect the male wears a clown costume and clown makeup or clown mask and the woman wears nothing not even pubes.
2006-09-08 22:38:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋