2006-09-08 15:32:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's the same question I've been asking myself many times lately.....It's just so hard to trust them after you've been let down many times!!!
If you think you're ready for a bf then I suggest you take things slow and get to know him really good before you actually show any true feelings....One thing I have learned is that, once they see that you're crazy over them, they just become stupid, and indifferent.....so just take it easy, and try not to rely to much on him.....It's not good to depend too much on guys, and that mistake a lot of us girls make, and it's bad....Good Luck
2006-09-08 15:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So some guy turned out to be a scumbag and bet your friends warned you about him but no..he was cute and you knew better now you dont now if you can every trust a man again..well maybe the real question should be can you trust your own judgement again..not all guys are scumbag..take for me ..I not a scumbag or sure I might be a little nuts..well maybe a lot of nuts but I am failthfull and kind to those who treat me nice..but you would me the time of day..so you make another bad choice and date the scumbag again then blame the people that pi standing up...it not us its you..
2006-09-08 22:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by Kingofreportedabuse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use logic and not emotion when finding a guy
i can guarantee you there were signs from the last guy and you flat out ignored them
hopeing it would go away ( it doesn't )
there are good basic rules
but most women do not use that for men
they let their emotions carry them into a deluded state
and later have only themselves to blame when it all goes wrong
women love bad men
they find them exciting
but with them there is always a price tag fo that
and that's where you get hurt
over time most women learn and refocus on what they really want in a guy
until you hit that stage you will ALWAYS make the same mistake over and over again
2006-09-08 22:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard. But realize that men aren't out there to hurt you. Bad men give the good men a hard time. There are good guys out there. Don't let yourself be hurt again. That's why we go through those painful experiences--so that next time we choose WISELY.
2006-09-08 22:38:55 · answer #4 · answered by sugar1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say why you don't trust men. Well, once you've been stung you never forget and according to what I read here, most men can't be trusted. Some can though. Not many.
2006-09-08 22:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By realizing that it is not "men" that you should not trust.........but an individual that you did not trust. You probably make poor choices in men for the wrong reasons......you need to have personal boundaries.
2006-09-08 22:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that everyone is different, that just because you ran across some awful men, does not mean that there arent wonderful ones out there. Just like some men think we are all evil and that is very untrue.
2006-09-08 23:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by galbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they will earn it if they are trustworthy. Dont let all men suffer because of the last one. There are good trusting guys out there. Go slow
2006-09-08 22:35:56 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to give it time and the right man will come around. Don't give up on all men, good guys are out there...it's just the douches that screw everything up. The main thing is to protect your heart...you are # 1 and that's who you have to look out for..until you find someone worth your heart.
2006-09-08 22:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very carefully. Listen to the experience of your heart. There are good men, but they are rare, like diamonds. Be patient. Be strong. Remember, you are responsible for your own happiness.
2006-09-08 22:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋