So my friend is 25 n a girl. she is sort of seeing a guy but lately he has been pissing her off because he never wants to hang out. anyway, 1 time when we were hanging out i made the comment that id like to move to a different city eventually and get on with my life. she shocked me by saying she'd go with me no questions asked. she even went so far as to suggest we need to develop a plan now. Ummm, thats great and all and she is more than welcome, but what the heck is that all about? to just leave a boyfriend and everything......
2006-09-08 15:29:31 · 12 answers · asked by Joe D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
friends are more important than boyfriends
2006-09-08 15:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by wantme_comegetme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend obviously don't have any feelings for this guy because if she did she would consider bringing him along. Then again you might not know what's going on with him and her, maybe he has been abusing her or anything. there's always more to the story than you think.
2006-09-08 22:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by JUICY T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like she feels she can confide in you and feels safe being around you dude basket ball is a great game take the rebound and take a shot.
2006-09-08 22:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by kauaiboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing that the 2 of u have been friends longer than she has been dating him. The only result I have is that u r more important to her than he is.
2006-09-08 22:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by 2good4hem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In poker that is called a Bluff. I dont think that she is serious and she just said it to see if she could get a rise out of her bf.
2006-09-08 22:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her ...Don't read too much into it ! ... She may really enjoy your friendship .... or perhaps she "Wants You!"
Either way if you ask ...you'll change your relationship.... it will be akward or wonderful. Flip the coin ... is the friendship worth the gamble !!
Been there ...screwed that up .... learned alot !
Also ... never pee into the wind !
2006-09-08 22:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was just passing time. If you really are serious and want her to come with you then ask her again about it. And go into details.
2006-09-08 22:33:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy doesn't want to hang out then you guys should go to another city!
2006-09-08 22:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by diego g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....maybe theres something deeper that you are not seeing...she might like you and also maybe some abuse in play...i dont know for sertain
2006-09-08 22:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by alex h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the chick wants your body
2006-09-08 22:33:47 · answer #10 · answered by freekinfreek82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋