I am an attractive woman who enjoys sports...mostly baseball, but also football as well. I like watching sports on TV and also like playing them. The problem is that when I start dating someone, I often get stuck in the "buddy" zone because a lot of times, what we have in common is a love of sports. The more we talk about sports, the more he starts thinking of me like a buddy. I try to steer the conversation to other topics that highlight more of my feminine qualities but sometimes, it's too late because I am already in the buddy zone. Are guys just not interested in women who like sports?
2006-09-08 15:06:35 · 8 answers · asked by Donna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it is guys not interested but maybe you unfortunately picked the wrong guys. One of my exgirlfriends hated sports and would never want to watch or go to any sporting events. It would really suck at times because I love watching football on Sunday afternoons and she did not want to be a part of it. Some guys do kind of place sports as a guy thing. When you find the right guy he will enjoy watching sports as well as playing them with you. Good Luck.
2006-09-08 15:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by Matthew B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are interested in girls who like sports, but there arent many of us who do. Man, do I hate getting stuck in the 'buddy' zone, that happens to me too. You should keep the fact that you like sports down for a while until you start dating.
2006-09-08 15:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by Sancho... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Touching is a sturdy indicator of allure. So are deep stares and smiling lots. You adult males have needless to say been buddies for an prolonged time so those are issues that could have basically stronger out of your friendship although. terrific advice, placed your self obtainable and tell her the way you experience. do no longer bombard her yet have a sit down down communique and notice if she feels an identical. If she does great....if no longer then you certainly might ought to take a step back and think returned your friendship and be certain even in case your thoughts will intervene including your friendship. in case you're shy like i became into, basically bear in techniques that in case you do no longer tell her she would have the ability to by no skill be attentive to after which you should be the chum at the same time as she has a boyfriend who wasn't scared to tell her how he felt.
2016-10-14 11:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy who simply loves girls who are into sports. But more playing than watching. Watching other people run around while i'm sitting on my butt makes me feel lazy, and I don't like to feel lazy :)
There are some guys who are interested in girls like you and have probably been looking for a girl like you for a very long time because you aren't very common :)
I hope you find the guy who'll appreciate your qualities the way you want to be appreciated and will feel lucky to have found an amazing girl like you. Good luck :)
2006-09-08 15:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Virginia there is a Santa Clause ....... Try this ...when your a couple and he keeps dragging the conversation back to sports ... make a rule ... if he wants to speak about sports he must be wearing a jock strap ...... if he still talks sports ... run like hell ......this is no person to take into public ... if he gets the hint ... rock on!
Or just don't talk sports ....
2006-09-08 15:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys LOVE girls that are into sports, just make sure you dont show of infront of him and be better then him..its a turn-off and makes them feel bad.
2006-09-08 15:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by Abercrombie Kid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can always get out, but it takes a lot of work. Don't seem so interested!
2006-09-08 15:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by Bass boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guaranty if you did some spontaneous sexual thing (anything) he would go with it and you would be out of the "zone"
2006-09-08 15:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by Romeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋