Well, I really do like the girl, but I'm a jealous guy and we're going to different schools. I can wait but she is really pretty so I don't know, I'm not naturally trusting despite how much I love her.
Anyways, yesterday I was talking to her online and she suddenly stopped responding, but never went offline. I didn't bother to find out what the matter was. This morning I blocked her MSN and AIM, and have decided to ignore her messages and phonecalls. She's sort of in the dark about all this, and it's probably cruel, but I just wanted to stop dealing with worrying and being jealous over no one (or someone -_-). So yeah, was this a bad way to do it?
2006-09-08 14:58:22 · 26 answers · asked by Hermes711 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break ups are never easy but sometimes necessary. I think you should not worry about this break up but for your being jealous. I did not mean it was not important or something to worry about... it is only that if you do not take care in a serious way about your being jealous you will suffer the same again and again in every relationship you could have. Try to think a Little more about yourself and I am Sure you will find you are a person who deserves being loved by anyone and does not need to worry about your couple even if you do not have her near you. How do you thing that couples whom some of them have to travel on business manage those situations?My husband and me were one of those couples and neve had troubles because of jealousy and he had to be sometimes up to a month . We have been married for almost 30 years and he is still very handsome and I am not bad or old and every thing is O K
2006-09-08 15:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by AMAYI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, you do sound like you are a jealous guy and this was a cruel way to end a relationship. You did not give her a chance to even explain what happened. Can you ask her without getting upset and yelling at her? It could be something very innocent that happened? She obviously wasn't trying to avoid you if she is calling and sending you messages.
2006-09-08 15:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by cee cee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to that! Y E S.. not only was it cruel to her but to you as well. You really like this girl but you have a problem that you have to deal with for future relationships. YOU are going to get hurt a LOT..if you don't fix it now! Being jealous is bad, it makes you feel miserable, UNTRUSTWORTHY, frustrated and to see things that are NOT there! You hurt a lot of people and you never allow yourself to be happy. JEALOUSY...is Poisson... DON'T let it fill you up....and spread to those you love! Being jealous is NOT..trusting yourself, it's being insecure....it's feeling like you are worthless and unable to keep a relationship. IS that what you think of yourself? If she is so pretty and she is with you..that says you are SPECIAL..intelligent and unique! She can be with anyone she wants...and she picked YOU!!! RIGHT??
GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-08 15:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by ..Luna.. *.. ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that was really mean. You need to tell her in no uncertain terms that the relationship is OVER. You can't just start ignoring someone. What you did was a HUGE cop-out. How would you feel if someone did that to you? You don't even know why they're ignoring you or if they're ever going to stop. You don't know if the relationship is over, or if they're just mad at you. Go break up with her immediately, and appoligize for being a jerk.
P.S. I didn't mean to come down hard on you. You asked for my opinion and I gave it, but I don't really mean to be mean about it. Just definite.
2006-09-08 15:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have talked to her about it. When people in a relationship go to different schools, it is hard to maintain that spark which started the relationship. I know it is hard not to get jealous, but I think you could have broken up with her a little more gently. Anyways, if you want to clear everything up with her, just talk to her. She should understand how you feel, and how it wouldnt' be fair to either of you to keep the relationship going. I hope this helps you.
2006-09-08 15:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by paintlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop this jealousy stuff,and grow
up. You got mad over something,and You
didn't even bother to find out what happened.
You just may have lost that special one,that
only comes around one time acting jealous.
2006-09-08 15:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by trebor2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once loved a guy with all my coronary heart yet he continuously cheated on me. He even were given yet another female pregnant. i tried so not straightforward to make him satisfied and that i could not make certain out why i could not be sufficient for him. i have not been with him in like 5 years, yet when he got here knocking on my door now i might want to nevertheless supply him yet another risk. It replaced right into a terrible split, I had to easily walk away to maintain myself from dropping my ideas.
2016-11-25 21:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uumm..how old are you?!i am guessing you are talking about different jr.high schools?!cruel is not the word that is just evil.even if you dont want to be in the relationship anymore you owe the girl a phone call to let her know what is going on!shame on you!!!!
2006-09-08 15:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by noseyroseysillywillie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...if this is how you want to end things, this is the best.
It doesn't sound like you are mature enough to handle a relationship. So, best to just stop the negatives, and move on with life.
2006-09-08 15:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes be a man and tell her why you are breaking up with her. You don't have to tell her that you are jealous paranoid guy just tell her its over and go on with life be mature about the whole situation
2006-09-08 15:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by joannaK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋