help.she anoys me because when a boy and a girl like each other they are mean to each other. all my/her friends know that we are
''enemies''. i'm afraid what'll happen if i ask her out and everyone
(including her) think's i'm stupid because we were ''enemies'' and
i just asked her out. please help!
2006-09-08 14:53:54 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Interesting question. You have a girl name, so that's throwing me off....
I think you shouldn't believe all the old sayings you hear. Sometimes a girl/guy annoys someone they do NOT like. I know this because it happened to me a lot as a kid. One time in fifth grade my friends flanked shy little me and encouraged me to go over to where the boys they liked were at, coz I was going to just sit at the table and wait for the girls to come back, and I went and smiled with them too, and this guy I hadn't bugged in two years but who was bugging me in dodgeball and gym just stood up and was like, Get away. I hate you! And he really did, apparently. He kept trying his best to hit me in gym and dodgeball. But till that point, my parents and friends teased by saying that's what guys do when they like someone....
It's better just to be honest about being enemies if you really are, and even better to have none. Don't ask someone out just because she annoys you. Do it if you LIKE her.
2006-09-08 15:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enemies eh? What grade are you in....come on who uses that term?
You sound quite young to be even asking such a question. You need to get to a point in your life where you dont' CARE what others think. They either like you or not. But that comes with age with some people. Some it never comes at all! Good Luck and don't worry so much.
2006-09-08 14:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by Pam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that's what happened to me. I finally got the guts to ask out my so called "enemy". My friends didn't care. I don't know what yours would think though. But don't listen to them if they don't like it. If you really wanna ask her out, go ahead. But if you're scraed it's your prob.
2006-09-08 15:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what other people will think. Just do whatever makes you happy. I do question whether you'll be happy with someone who annoys you, but that's ultimately your decision.
2006-09-08 14:56:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt care what other people think. but if this girl annoys you so much... why do you want to go out with her? how old are you anyways? you seem a little young to be chasing girls.
2006-09-08 15:01:03 · answer #5 · answered by rlt101010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone annoys you, why would you even consider dating them? being mean to each other to show you like someone is childish. grow up.
2006-09-08 14:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by Kathy C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You won't know if You don't ask Her.
whats the worst that can happen ?
2006-09-08 15:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by trebor2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? I think you should pay attention in school...it might help.
2006-09-08 14:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by strong and soft 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋