im 13 and i have an 18 year old boy friend is that bad should brake up with him it only been a week
2006-09-08 14:29:29 · 24 answers · asked by candy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is way too old for you. In life when you are 13 and he is 18 there is just too much difference in maturity. I am not saying you are imature, just that he is older, and wiser about the ways of the world. I think you might want to find someone younger. You are already having second thoughts,and that makes you a very wise young lady. Go with your instincts, and not your heart.
At 18 you will understand that its just wrong to date someone that much younger than you. Look at it this way...you are 13...would you go out with someone 8 years old? Of course not...why? Because you are mucn more mature than an 8 year old. This guy should want to date someone his own age, and he could be trying to take advantage of you.
I wish you the best, and hope you make the wise decision.
Take care,
Robert
2006-09-08 14:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by Robert B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are way to young to have an "18 year old" boyfriend. And there is something wrong with him if at 18 he wants to date a 13 year old. Makes you wonder what he really is looking for! Get out now and stay with boys your own age. Sooner or later you will get hurt by him.
2006-09-08 14:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by zoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That age difference may not be a big deal when you are 23 and he is 28, but now it is a huge deal. For one thing, if the relation goes to far, it would be a felony. But more importantly, there is a huge difference in maturity between a 13 year old and an 18 year old and I would assume that he is taking advantage of that. I am sure you are a lovely girl, but you should date guys your own age for now. I am sure you will have much more in common with them. As your boyfriend should date girls closer to his own age for similar reasons. You will grow up fast enough, there is no need to rush it. Take care and good luck.
2006-09-08 14:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Mojo Risin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 is a little old for you. I would look for someone to just hang out with. Serious dating shouldn't happen until you are ready for a serious commitment. I can remember when I was 13, none of my friends or I really had the maturity level to handle relationships, especially not people that were already legal adults and we were barly teenagers.
2006-09-08 14:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by Joseph S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get out if I were you, 18 year olds don't want the same things a 13 year old wants. Think about it.
2006-09-08 14:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by Tanya 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My dear, 13 is too young to date an 18 year old MAN! He is legally an adult and you are a minor. Where are your parents do they know about this? He can go to jail for dating you.
2006-09-08 14:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Boy friends that are bad should be dumped. Especially when they are 18.
2006-09-08 14:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by GeekNTraining 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... lets see.... make a complete sentence.... and "brake" is break.....
Umm... if your 13 and dating an 18 year old you should be locked up in your room and he should be locked up in jail!!!
2006-09-08 14:30:53 · answer #8 · answered by Keith Perry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only wants you for sex! No 18 year old male has ANYTHING in common with a child. Once he has it, he will dump you!
2006-09-08 14:31:09 · answer #9 · answered by Laurie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest u break up with him. only because most 18 year old guys don't hook up wit 13 year olds. he's probably just playing with you or soemthing. when you get older you'll understand.
2006-09-08 14:31:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋