Ok, guys this one if for you....Can you tell me why you guys won't look past the outside looks of a girl? I recently had a boyfriend and he broke up with me ONLY because he found out that I have dark toes and that my bikini line is also Very Dark?? That's the way my skin is, why would guys do such a thing, reject a girl because of something that isn't her fault at all??
I feel really bad, I really cared about this guy, we've been going out for 4 years already and now he does this?? I felt so bad when he rejected me, I've never been so humiliated in my life!!!!! Why are guys so mean and such pigs, can anyone tell me that??
2006-09-08 14:28:17 · 20 answers · asked by Tams_B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your story is bogus. It's inconceivable that you dated this guy for 4 years and that he only just "found out" you had dark toes, and further, that he rejected you and ended the relationship because of it. What a lame story. Please come up with something better.
BTW, guys think with their penises.
2006-09-08 14:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by surfinthedesert 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aaaw, babe, you've had a bad time!!!
That sucks about your boyfriend. If he broke up with you for that then he's a pig. Just a pig.
Also, are you sure there wasn't something more that caused the breakup? If you two were having issues before, perhaps the skin stuff was just a scapegoat. Guys will often blame their problems on something that you can't work out, just so that they can get out of the relationship scott-free. I"m sorry, but your ex was a douchebag. There's no getting around it.
All in all, he's a loser, and you're lucky to be rid of him. I know it hurts, but you just have to move on. Go get a pint of ben & jerry's, watch chick flicks for a while, then go find a guy who isn't such a loser. They are out there, you just have to look. Good luck, you're really lovely and if the guy couldn't see it he doesn't deserve you.
2006-09-08 14:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by Samwise Potter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. But I do think there is something fishy about your story. Either you made it up, or you're not telling us the whole story. First of all, you've been going out for 4 years and he has just now noticed that your toes and bikini line are dark? I smell a rat here somewhere. Either you made the story up, you're not telling us the whole story, or he dumped you for other reasons/ someone else. So come clean and tell us - which is it?
2006-09-08 14:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by BRIAN W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I"m not a guy, but all guys don't do that, this guy sounds shallow and superficial, and he was really only looking for an excuse to break up with you, so he made one up, it probably sounded great in his head when he thought it up.
Ask yourself this question, do you date guys who are a little nerdy, or a little "less than stellar" as far as what is considered "hot"
Because if you answer yes, and aren't willing to give a nice guy a chance and only date guys who your friends think are hot, you're being just as superficial and shallow as your ex.
Look for a man who respects you, not just your body, you'll be surprised there are wonderful men out there, you just have to be willing to be interested in more than just looks because there are nice, hot guys, but there are guys who are just a pretty face. Look deeper, find a man, not a bit of arm candy.
2006-09-08 14:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by Angeleyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you were going out for 4 yrs, , the color of your toes and bikini line are NOT the reasons he split! You missed it. There's another, deeper reason than that, I guarantee.
Maybe he was just tired of you, found another girl, got married, or whatever; he told you that because it was the only thing he could think of that you would remotely accept! He knew you better than you knew him.
He lied! He was just stringing you along until something more suitable came along. Both genders are guilty of doing that!
Be glad you found out before wasting four more years!
2006-09-08 14:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly he wasnt in the relationship to begin with it seems. i mean after four years he had to have seen at least your feet and from the way you talk your bikini line too or did you just show him a couple of weeks ago. if he knew he was just using that as an excuse. maybe you should actually date a man who wont string you along like that.
2006-09-08 14:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dream girl is this girl in skool she one of my friends we talk n stuff but i'm afraid if i ask her out she would refuse , plus i'm short and she's tall it's kinda hard to go out on dates like these but someday probably in the next year prom i would ask her out , i would give it a shot at least but i still wanna be friends with her if we don't have a chance , it's a girl any guy likes she wears sunglass (mucho beautiful) , smart , nice , sweet , funny , playful , likes basically anything i like , likes guitars (very very sexy)lol but yea if i have a chance with her i would ask her . i have dated only 1 girl throughout my life because i'm not the guy who likes to go out with anyone else i want to go out with that someone special and only them . man everytime i c her face i get so happy , but i really try talking to her but she just talks to me sometimes (most of the time just a wave for hi or bye) , and with this kinda conversation we've there's no chance for me with her but i would still love and care for her because she a beautiuful friend of mine (bless you god to make this amazing human being ) , and the way she smiles my god that get's me high , it gives me pleasure when she's happy , but i know that she's not feeling the same for me and probably wouldn't but , hey life is not fair and everything is not perfect so there wouldn't be a chance with her cause truly i know that she doesn't like me but if there's a little spark inside her that tells her that i'm the guy who would give up anything for her xcept for GUITAR , then i would be blessed by the love of God . And evertime i sleep majority of the time i dream about her my God how beautiful she is ... if miracle happen and she reads message and if she knew it was me (somehow) , i want to say I LOVE YOU !!!!!!!!!!!IN THE WHOLE WORLD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!AND I ALSO LOVE GUITAR AND SEPULTURA
i'm not a pig i'm a different kind of person , but i guess most guys do that because they are young and horney and sometimes they want to do a perfect girl nothing out of the ordinary just 100 percent complete perfect , and i think that stupid noone's perfect and if they are perfect things are not always found in perfect people
2006-09-08 14:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by nattdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he dumped you because of that, then he isnt worth chicken sh*t. A guy that truely loves you will accept you the way you are, because they look past the inperfections and see that you are a very beautiful person! You deserve much better, trust me.
2006-09-08 14:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by Dead Birds Don't Poop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bizzare
2006-09-08 14:29:55 · answer #9 · answered by foogill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't love you if he left you for a stupid thing like that, not all guys are like that and there is plenty of fish in the ocean. In fact i'm eating one right now.
2006-09-08 14:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by Arts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋