I need something 2 Cheer me up!???

Question

My bf moved and ever scenc he moved he has not called I miss him and stuph! So today im like i miss him to mush and i think he has moved on so my friend call him and say's lexi has been wanting to tell you this but she did know how to say it she think this not working out and he said i know tell her were over ok bye
so what do i do please help

Answer 1

These moments are what really good friends are for. You don't seem like someone who does not have at least one other close friend. Talk. Cry. Talk some more. Cry lots more. It's okay.

As for that friend. Thank them but let them know that it is inappropriate. You should have made that call. Dumping you via a friend was very cowardly. You deserved to hear that message straight from the horse's mouth, then have your moment to tell him how much that hurts.

Once your feelings are healthily expressed, then you will naturally cheer up, get out of hiding and let the world see that you are worthy of being romanced by someone who appreciates you. Don't dwell on the bad feelings of the relationship. If you have to think about the relationship, then think about what you can learn out of it to improve yourself.

Answer 2

A guy walks into a bar...he says, "ouch".

#2) What's the best way to catch a fish? Have someone throw it to you.

#3) This guy goes to the pet store and he asks for a talking parrot and the guy brings him out this gorgeous parrot...who stands on his arm singing songs and dancing. He then talks up a storm, so the guy buys him.

Once he gets him home, the parrot begins swearing and cussing like there's no tomorrow. He curses worse than most sailors! Worse than most pirates! So the man tells the bird to stop, and when he won't, the man opens up the freezer door, and tosses the parrot inside.

For a moment, there is a loud roucous and a lot of noise, screaming, and then suddenly, not a sound. Nothing.

The man sits quietly outside the freezer and worries, so he opens up the door and the parrot comes out and steps onto his finger and says, "May I humbly ask your forgiveness? I am SO solemnly sorry for the way that I've behaved. I give you my word of honor that I will never curse, swear, act like a pirate or sailor again. I will be the bird of your dreams."

Then, a moment later, the parrot continues...
"May I ask what the chicken did?"

See, you're already smiling.

:)

Answer 3

Lexi,

We all have been through similiar situations of hurt. It will be hard to deal with it initially but over a period of time things will be so much better. You have to let go of him. Get a hobby or take some lessons in dancing or whatever you like. That will keep your mind occupied and you won't be thinking of this fool.

Its ok...you are not the only one going thru this....there are many other people out there who could be in the same situation.

I have been thru it and I am totally over it....when I think back it makes me laugh....he was a big fat loser. :-)

All the best.

ps: If you need to talk sis contact me on my email.

Answer 4

listen to music or watch a comedy, thatll put you in a good mood. take a long bubble bath, dont think about ANYTHING, work out or do something that will make you feel like you have accomplished something, let it all out in some kind of prayer or poem or diary or whatever works for you. Once you have written it down, put it away and completely forget about him. Avoid or put away things that remind you of him, keep yourself busy, talk to some friends, realize that hes not worth crying over, and get out that little black book.

Answer 5

Give your self a little time to think and then move on. He is not some one you need to be with . Look how he handled things, He could have called you and let you know how he was feeling. He could have told you before he moved

Answer 6

Get dressed up, call a good friend. And go out and have a blast. You need to meet new people. And hopefully you will find one that will love and care about you. You will not be able to change your boy friends mind, so just let him go. And move on.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

It is always best to be honest. Call and ask him how he is and you have been hearing this rumor. If he hems and haws or just out right says you are over, fine now you know where you stand and honey, you can always do better and find someone who cares for you.
Good luck

Answer 9

What you need to do is expect it, accept it or better yet- Check it !

And for that chick called "Don't Ask Me" you know Damn well! All that was not called for. Not then, not now, not ever. Talking bout some damn chain girl I oughta.........Lord give me the strenght!

Answer 10

well just forget about him i know its hard to deal with and stuff but it will be ok just try to keep yourself busy go out with friends the mall throwa party what ever you think well make you happy ok


your friend danielle


PS if you want to talk here is my email [e-mail] bye bye