I need this to stop without telling the police or adults. I am 12, I'm a boy, my school and many around it has a lot of ballbusting girls. I am in one(I've seen about different 23 girls kicked atleast one guy last month and I've heard more all in this school)(there is 400 people in this school). It will make a guy in pain for 40 seconds if they gently tap it and the after pain last for about 10-15 minutes inside my male anatomy, and girls in my school are KICKING THEM just for the fun, some kick as hard as they can or knee/squeeze for giggles or laughs. THESE GIRLS DO IT FOR ABSOLUTELY NO REASON and girls admit it too. They do it for the fun of it. Boys won't tell the teachers for the embarrassment or being threatened, but a few do. A few boys can't have babbies ever again in my school and around it. I know boys can carry more weight, we even took care of them even before this even started and still. They all giggle about it! I don't want to tell teachers or police. It hurts me inside!
2006-09-08
14:21:29
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I mean I have seen 23 girls do this in my school.
2006-09-08
14:25:17 ·
update #1
Ballbusting is what some call it, others call it from what it looks like. I get 92 percent in my english, and proud of it!
2006-09-08
14:26:53 ·
update #2
For people who don't think I am 12, I learned anatomy from my puberty class, theres some people smarter than me, I am sure.
Anyone can do something as long as they spend enough time and actually focus on it, I learned it from my past experience, and I always got google to fix up my words :)
2006-09-08
15:55:39 ·
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"A few boys can't have babbies ever again in my school and around it."
Boys can't have anyways but that's besides the point...you're going to have to tell the principal or someone in authority sometime soon.
Just one more reason for single-gender schools.
2006-09-08 17:09:16
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answered by daryavaush 5
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ok first off there is no excuse for this to be going on... period! You should try sending an anonymous letter to the principal in your school and explain exactly what is going on. If you are worried about your handwriting being recognized then type the letter. The wearing of the cup seems like a good idea also while your waiting for a reply from the principal. Hope this helps....
2006-09-08 14:41:40
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answered by shooter77 2
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If you are at home, tell parents, then police. School is LAST coz they'll want to push it under the rug.
If you are at school, get thee to a phone and call your parents, then the police after telling a school official.
This is WRONG and you need to be protected.
Why's everyone saying he sounds older than 12? Just sounds reasonably intelligent.... So, since you know I think that, kid, tell an ADULT.
2006-09-08 14:26:17
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answered by *babydoll* 6
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Ask to be transfered to a different school. If you don't want to admit the reason, think of a different one (maybe a better English program than your school). Some counties let you transfer because of academic reasons or sports, or music, or theater. You should also stick with other boys or groups - avoid being alone and vulnerable as much as possible.
2006-09-08 14:32:31
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answered by curious1223 3
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If you don't want to tell anyone about it.......Even though they're girls......Beat the S#@% out of them. Or at least, give them a good slap in the face and say "You'll leave me alone if you know what's good for you"
But if that doesn't work, just tell someone. In reality, telling someone is the best thing you can do. Also, stay in groups of people where you're less likely to be picked on.
2006-09-08 14:28:44
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answered by Anonymous
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you need to tell your parents and let them have a meeting with your teachers.i know you dont want to be called a snitch but this is something that has to be stopped or someone might be hurt really bad. if you can get online and state your problem so well i am sure you can tell your parents and they will be able to help you and by the way 92 is a awsome grade keep up the hard work
2006-09-08 15:31:18
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answered by patbgone 3
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I know you don't want the police to find out or any adults but if you want this to stop not only for you but for all of the boys in your school you have to tell an adult, That these girls are kicking you it hurts and its not funny!! These are just girls who are immature and they need an adult to set them straight!! Until you do this wear a joc strape. Good luck
2006-09-08 14:28:46
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answered by Crystal M 2
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call child protective services. You can call united ways 211 and get their number. This is a national toll free number.You can report this to CPS annoymously. Just tell them your name and that you dont want to be contacted at home. If you say that all are getting this done to them. they dont have to name drop. I have called CPS myself for a situation where coachs were letting things like this go by. The school got sued a few years latter by another student and won a 275,000 law suit. Also tell the school nurse. They are required to report this by law and follow up with this. If they dont call the board of nurse examiners in your state and she will get fired and fined.
2006-09-08 14:32:33
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answered by circusdejojo 3
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Look at it this way, if the boys were going around pinching the girls boobs, they would get reported. So tell someone, maybe the consular or school nurse. Don't be ashamed. They have NO right to do that to any male unless they are being attacked or something.
2006-09-08 14:28:04
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answered by American___Brit 2
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What these girls are doing is CRIMINAL ASSAULT. In our society we don't accept that behaviour, as well you know. Another thing we don't accept is our citizens trying to deal with criminals on their own. That is why we have the Police. You are asking us for advice on how to deal with criminals on your own, & none of us can legally do that.
You are afraid to report it because of peer pressure & intimidation. It is also illigal for anyone to threaten or intimidate you from bearing witness to a crime if you want to report it, & what these girls are doing is a crime & they need to be shown that in the harshest way.
You have the full force of the laws of your community & your nation behind you in this.
I don't want to call you a coward, because you have been brave enough to reach out to someone for help. But if you continue to keep this quiet, & stand by while you & others are being bullied & assaulted then you eventually will become one.
Furthermore, we can't really bring you the help you need in this situation. This is really really really serious. I am an adult & I wouldn't expect myself to be able to handle this situation on my own. So how can a 12 yo boy expect to do it by himself. No, you need to go to your parents with this one. I really mean it. I hope that your parents will then take it to the police, & then they can keep your name out of it. It is possible for the police to investigate these crimes & arrest these girls & make them stop, without anybody in your school knowing who 1st brought the complaint to them.
By the way, getting kicked in the groin doesn't necessarily mean that the boy can't grow up & have babies.
Be brave, do the right thing, & report this to your folks.
Best of Luck!
2006-09-08 14:51:52
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answered by No More 7
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first of all, your son had surgical technique and additionally you're apprehensive approximately while he would be waiting to return to college because of the discomfort? Did the medical doctors no longer prescribe painkillers of any form? i've got had surgical technique beforehand, or perhaps a low dose of prescription painkillers ought to be sufficient to get him lower back into college interior of a pair days. The fault for the quite injury is thoroughly with the youngster who elbowed your son in the tummy. He in all hazard might have had to pass into surgical technique in spite of ways in the present day he replaced into taken to the faculty medical institution, because of the fact as you suggested, you weren't stated as to return %. him up until eventually after he were in the medical institution for greater or less half-hour, and no college medical institution that i've got ever heard of is provided to the two avert or manage a fluid accumulation like your son had. So, this is quite in all hazard that whilst the faculty's action (or loss of action) made you're son's situation somewhat worse, the only in all hazard difference is that he in all hazard might have been in the faculty medical institution for an added quarter-hour or so. Writing a criticism to the faculty, or perhaps some thing greater open like a letter to the faculty board or the editor of the community paper, might in all hazard be sufficient. no longer writing up an incident checklist is iffy, if no person observed it, and one youngster elbowing yet another is hardly an 'altercation' and ought to quite additionally be an twist of fate, so i do no longer think of that there is plenty which you will income from criminal action previous perhaps scientific charges (and that's on condition which you reside in the U. S. the place you need to pay for wellbeing care).
2016-12-15 04:58:11
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answered by bloodsaw 3
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