He's hot and cold to me. But I feel he thinks maybe I kind of like him. So people say sometimes a guy flirts when they know a girl likes them. He has winked at me a couple of times. He has stared straight into my eyes for longer then he had to. He has looked into my eyes and I feel like down at my lips before. Almost like I feel he's doing it on purpose. But this has been going on back and forth for a long time. When he looks at me in the eyes is he trying to see if maybe this time I'll think she's attractive? But how many times do you have to do this before you know if your attracted to someone. Sometimes I feel this semi/friend acquaintance what have you likes me and sometimes I feel he doesn't. What is wrong with me, that he's so confused about me? If that's the case? Am I just not attractive enough for him? I just wish He wouldn't stare so deep into my eyes and then totally not even look my way. This really hurts.
2006-09-08 14:20:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
4get abt him
2006-09-08 14:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Shan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible for a male to admire and take in the beauty of a girl/woman, but not necessarily want to form a bonding relationship, and that could be for a number of reasons having nothing to do with you as an individual.
2006-09-08 21:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry that you're hurting, but stop with the high school drama and ask him directly. Stop playing mind games. It's soo childish. Move on in your life, you have bigger things to worry about like life, college, a career, family, etc. Sheesh.
2006-09-08 21:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may your reading this the wrong way, maybe he's just trying to muster up the courage to make the first move, maybe he's afraid you'll reject him. and if you only kind of like him then his actions shouldn't affect you this much. he's just a guy, find the confidence in yourself to play the game back. you have it in you, all women do
2006-09-08 21:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he only looks away sometimes because he's nervous. did it ever occur to you that maybe you look paniced sometimes when he looks into your eyes. i highly doubt you are unattractive because anyone who expresses these feelings is a beautiful human being. i think you should talk to him and not worry about where he's looking but just enjoy one another's company.
good luck hun <3
2006-09-08 21:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by Smile :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow dont let him hurt you dear. he obviously playing hard to get im going through the same thing now but dont worry about him if he knows u like him he is going to keep doing that try focusing on other things besides him and see how he reacts to that but other wise he is not worth the wait.
jackie
2006-09-08 21:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's teasing you!!! How do you feel about him? If you ignored him, this may force him to either do one thing or the other. You can't just keep hanging on like that.
2006-09-08 21:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by ang_172 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I kinda dig your grey smiley face!!
2006-09-08 21:23:49 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever thought maybe his playing games with you so you can think of him every day and want him more?
im telling you girl...his play7ing you out!
2006-09-08 21:23:09 · answer #9 · answered by Grack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him out and see where it leads to
2006-09-08 21:22:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just find someone who likes you for you.
2006-09-08 21:24:32 · answer #11 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋