I've never been into women 'cause number 1 you might fall in love,which is not good for my profession,which requires me to deal with physical,mental,emotional pressure,and I have to see people die everyday,2 they're idiots(learned this from experience)3 they pretty much don't last long.I use them alot just for lust and pleasure and that's all I use them for.Actually,that's all they're good for,one night.But lately I met this woman and somehow sleeping with her doesn't seem enough.I get anxious at times 'cause I want to see her.I find myself looking forward to going to work just to see her.And I also find that if she's in the room I can relax better.And she's not even that pretty.She's only a junior colleague,it gets so bad that I cry at night 'cause I wanna feel her.What's wrong with me?Am I getting weaker?My friend recommended this section of yahoo to me 'cause he said he got some pretty good advice here,but I'm not sure about its reliability.Well,I guess I'll just have to see.
2006-09-08 14:17:11 · 9 answers · asked by need a cure 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You like her. You obviously had issues with women before hand and didn't want or weren't ready for a relationship. Maybe the girls you were with for however long were not the right ones for you. Maybe this girl brings something ou tin you that you didn't know was there. That is usually the stepping stone to love. Accept and enjoy it.
Of course everybody dies someday, but it's what you make of your life while you are here that makes a difference. Why not enjoy your time here with someone you love, or could love. Without pain there wouldn' be any joy.
2006-09-08 14:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you're growing up and starting to see women as more than "good for sex"
This woman probably has a great personality that you feel you can get along with and share a life with.
There's nothing wrong with falling in love and I can tell you that not all women are idiots. My guess is that you only think women are idiots because from the sounds of things, the girls that you spend your time with are the girls that will sleep with you the first night you meet them.... definitely idiots!
A girl that you can talk to and make you think, that's the type of girl that will last long. A girl that sleeps with you right away is just looking for a good night, not a lasting relationship
2006-09-08 14:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love sucks.
Anyway, You dig the girl, why not just hang out with her? At the very least you'll make a friend. But she somehow has some hold over you. Love is a horrible thing, but it can also be really good too. You're not weak, you're a man. There's nothing wrong with it.
Girls are not always stupid. You just have had bad luck. Plus you're a bit of an *******, that's why no one wants to be with you. Perhaps. I dunno, if she likes your womanizing habits, then you're made for each other. Just don't let her know that you only use women for sex, and that'll be great, though I know very few women who are interested in guys like you. Good luck.
2006-09-08 14:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by Samwise Potter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have NEVER been in love and probably don't believe in love at first sight. Sounds to me like your trying to convince yourself that you are not falling for ths woman.
Usually when a man REALLY cares for woman....he finds it hard to even touch her for fear that he might scare her away. Maybe she is the soulmate that you have always wanted. When you use people, you are only degrading yourself and hurting yourself.
I hope this woman can make you believe that there really is love and it can be everlasting if you find the right person. Good Luck.
2006-09-08 14:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by Nicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're human, we get feelings for people. My first love I thought was unattractive but all the great things he did and the way he made me feel was worth it. (Plus I didn't have to worry about being the jealous girlfriend) haha! Don't let you're job get in the way of emotions. Like I said we're human we fall in love whether we want to or not...just b/c you see people die...you mentally are scared to see the one you love die? it might happen one day sweetie...you said you might be getting weaker...but something like that only makes you stronger. Go for it. You are definetly into her.
2006-09-08 14:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by locks_south941 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting weaker??? You got it all wrong. Love is about getter stronger. Yes, I agree with others here...you are somewhere close to being in love. However, you've got a very long way to go before you will actually experience love. The way you talk about women, using them and so forth shows you to be extremely selfish and immature AND very weak...learn to give to others and you give to yourself. Its the only way to happiness.
(You sound very mister able)
2006-09-08 14:29:39 · answer #6 · answered by Greanwitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have fallen in love my friend. And there is nothing you can do about it. Looks like us women are worth more than what you used to think.
2006-09-08 14:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by Starliner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok for one you either like her or love her. yes you are getting weaker for this women. for you to say women are worth anything is wrong. and you are a jerk for that. but thats what i think. good luck hopually you get with her. and change your mind about women.
2006-09-08 14:22:33 · answer #8 · answered by teddybearleogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just grew up! *round of applause* All those feelings mean that you love her and want more from life than just her body you want her 2.
2006-09-08 14:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋