recently when talking to my gf she lost her perkyness. i ask if she was ok she sed fine but she doesnt talk much and lost her upbeat perky self.
how do i get her to losen up and be more of herself or what every
its kinda like she depressed or do you think she doesnt like me anymore?
if so why doesnt she hang up?
2006-09-08 14:14:12 · 9 answers · asked by blah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she was tired or grumpy. it could have been anything. maybe it does not have anything to do with you..... if it was only this once then don't worry about it. if she continues to act that way then you need to tak to her about what is going on.
2006-09-08 14:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by purple rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's possible that she's over you or cheating because she's distant, but more than likely it's a problem that doesn't relate to you. It could be anything; a death in the family, lost friends, etc. Let her know you're there for her and if she wants to talk about it then she will.
2006-09-08 21:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by Rashanka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure mabey,mabey not. try this, go somewhere fun on a date. like..... a arcade, ice skating/ roaller blading, horse back ridding, going to the beach, going to the zoo, a fair and win her a stuffed animal, a picnic in the park, ect. do something to bring her perky self back! have some fun. she might just not be feeling well. you never know. ask her on a date and do something fun! good luck!
2006-09-08 21:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be PMS if you can understand that, or she might be on some sort of medication for migrains or something.
Just because she has lost her perkiness doesn't mean she thinks less of you.
2006-09-08 21:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by LVieau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is down because of the weather - is she bipolar? or maybe is having a bad pms week. Ask her what is going on. If you are still in love with her, talk to her and let her know your concerns. Be honest and be nice about it.
2006-09-08 21:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by wonderwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A LOT OF TIMES WOMEN WILL USE THE SILENT TREATMENT WITH THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHERS WHEN WE'RE HAVING ISSUES CONCERNING FAMILY. IT MAY BE KIND OF PERSONAL AND SENSITIVE RIGHT NOW FOR HER TO EXPRESS TO YOU, BUT I'M SURE THAT TIME WILL ALLOW HER TO OPEN UP TO YOU...JUST GIVE HER A LITTLE SPACE AND THINGS WILL WORK OUT SOON ENOUGH...GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-08 21:18:40 · answer #6 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe theres something going on that you dont know about. i would try to find out whats going on, ands help her through it. i hope it all wqorks out for u
2006-09-08 21:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by ezzaphill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is telling you she wants you to tell her she is pritty and how much you love her, and tell her she is making you feel bad because your doing your best to keep her happy! or... she is telling you she wants to brake up! ask her first!
2006-09-08 21:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by love_lust_andpower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her!
2006-09-08 21:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by Tiny Dancer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋