Ok so my cousin and his wife have been married for a while now and everyone in our family get's along with her. I always looked up to her and treat her like family. It was her birthday, a couple months ago, and I couldn't make it and I even apologized and everything. I don't se it as a big deal at all. Ever since that day, she doesn't speak to me anymore and seems like she doesn't care. It's a pretty immature way to react, if you ask me. I feel that, she's doing it on purpose to show that she doesn't care about us and all she cares about is her husband (my cousin).. and everyone in her family, ie. her mom, sisters, etc. I guess it takes something stupid for a person's true colors to show. What do you guys think?
2006-09-08 14:03:41 · 9 answers · asked by polka dot dottt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think that you answer your own question. Not going to her party shouldn't been such a big deal to her. You even apologized what more can you do? If it is bothering you a lot talk to her, if not just let it go. It is up to you. You have already done all you can.
2006-09-08 14:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would just let her ignore me and I would not instigate any communication with her until she does so first. You have done all you can and she is really self centered. Be polite but stand back and give her plenty of room. Act just like you always have with everyone else in the family.
2006-09-08 21:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it sounds pretty immature. If I were you, I would let it pass and act as though nothing is wrong and see what her reaction would be. Then you will know for sure why she's acting that way.
2006-09-08 21:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds a little self centered. But she's family, so just ignore it and move on with life.'
2006-09-08 21:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by Bluealt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, it's a bit immature. She's probably just a little hurt is all.
2006-09-08 21:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is an absolutley ridiculous way of her to act. You should confront her about it and if she still acts the same..forget about it. Its her problem not yours.
2006-09-08 21:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by Starliner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what the problem is . if you accept her answer and she still treat you bad then leave her alone. she doesn't show you any respect so ignore her.
2006-09-08 21:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show that you have more class than her.
2006-09-08 21:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
blow her off. who cares. be nice as usual but dont let it bother you. she will come to her senses once she grows up.
2006-09-08 21:52:48 · answer #9 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋