im 20 and he is 30.he was the 1 who divirginized me.he has wife but not married,and he has 2 kids.i told him i love him and his answer he don't want to fall in-love with me
2006-09-08 13:33:51 · 11 answers · asked by witchangel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is a normal feelings for the first timer who had engage in sex. It is probably brought about by hormones. Having engaging in sex doesn't necessarily mean that you must and is loving him. What you are feeling for him is a form of lust. And you have said that he has his family. You are disobeying one the greatest commandments. It is unlawful in the eyes of God and in the ears and minds of the people. What will happen to you if you two were involved with each other? He might left you at the end when times got worst because he have these children from his former wife.
Better confide to a good counsel.
2006-09-08 13:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by lonelybapcmau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he have a wife and not be married. He has kids so don't be the one to be a homewrecker. Try to forget him and stay away from him.
2006-09-08 20:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about this, darn. I khow it isn't what you want to hear but I feel very bad for you and pretty angry at him.
Disassociate yourself from him, asap. Contact a counselor, talk with that person. Good luck, your heart will heal w/time.
2006-09-08 20:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said he has a wife, but isn't married ??? HUH. If he doesn't want you to love him........walk away with your head up high, be better then he is. ~~~
2006-09-08 20:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE SAID THAT HE DO NOT WANT TO FALL IN LOVE WITH U, THEN HE IS NOT LOOKING TO GET SERIOUS WITH U HE JUST WANT U FOR SEX..... SO HE LETTING U KNOW WHAT HE WANTS.....
2006-09-08 20:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by TANNER GIRL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is up with these people and SEX?! nobody should have sex before marriage.
2006-09-08 20:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by hello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. That's the best thing to do.
2006-09-08 20:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your on a very wrong path in life,better change your course!
2006-09-08 20:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,for get him he used you like an old rubber boot. you had a leak.
2006-09-08 20:36:32 · answer #9 · answered by horseknickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he just used you. forget about him. you deserve better. someone younger than him.
2006-09-08 20:36:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋