I have never been with a girl, but while i am out or something i like watching other girls in short skirts. When me and a guy are watching porn together i would rather watch 2 girls going at it better than i like watching a guy and a girl. And then there we are at the whole 3sum deal.. i would love to have a 3sum with another girl and guy and all i can picture is being with the girl, but i am not sure if it is just a phase i am going through or if i am actually bisexual and if so how do i go about to tell my friends and family that i am?
2006-09-08 13:29:22 · 18 answers · asked by Shooting Star 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are sexually attracted to men and women, you're bisexual. You can choose to explore it or leave it in the fantasy stage. You don't have to tell anyone anything. If you want to tell your family about it, the conversation will probably be painful and awkward that is just unavoidable. You just have to get it out in the open and let them react how they choose to.
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BTW, the tuna fish sandwhich guy might want to explore sex with men as it sounds like he isn't sexually attracted to women.
2006-09-08 13:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may just be curious about other girls. It is totally normal...especially in fantasy.
If you think you'd really like to go thru with it then maybe you're bi-curious or bi-sexual. I am married and would love to have a 3some with another girl and my hunny. And we have and will but it is not easy, it complicates things a bit. I don't ever consider myself bisexual though, i just want to see my husband having fun. I guess i could label myself that...but who really cares...just have fun and don't worry about it ok?
Take care and don't worry about telling family or friends who could judge you. Some things are best left unsaid unless and until you are ready. I would only consider telling if i was going to have a committed relationship with another girl...or something where other people would see. But if it is just behind closed doors, it would stay there.
:-) If you end up preferring females only...that's a perfectly normal thing too. Don't ever worry about who you are or question yourself. Good luck.
2006-09-08 20:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by K Z G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound's like you are just going through a time in your life when you don't really know what you want. Just wait it out and see what happen's and you do not need to tell friend's and family anything.
2006-09-08 20:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan Wilson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to tell you but for what you have described you are bisexual;but don't worry because you don't have to be ashamed of it if your friends and family love you they won't matter if you are bisexual or not;if not you have a friend in me.My website is baby_itchi@yahoo.com;BYE.
2006-09-08 20:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's how you figure it out the easy way. Go and make yourself a tuna fish sandwich and eat it. If you find yourself being arroused or licking it instead of eating it... you're probably a carpet muncher. But telling people won't be hard, no one cares if a chick muff dives anymore.
2006-09-08 20:34:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it's just a phase, or maybe you are just curious to see whether or not you are.
Do you dream of being with girls?? Do you go out of your way to see pictures and movies with naked girls??
It's probably just curiosity.
2006-09-08 20:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its normal to check out other girls. we all do it. but do u get any feelings towards them. i think ur just a little confused right now. but u should talk to other people that are bisexuals to seeif you relate to them and thatll help you more.
2006-09-08 20:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by MxcanBloNdie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's just a phase, trust me i thought i was gay but it went away then came back then went away trust me i'm as straight as a line
2006-09-08 20:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by Jonathan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give in to the temptation. You are just temporarily confused & you will regret it forever. It is un-natural & non productive.
2006-09-08 20:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by Steven B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do things like fix your hair for girls, flirt what u would do with a guy.
2006-09-08 20:33:18 · answer #10 · answered by chr!$ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋