I mean, should I give her all my love, buy her presents, take a mariachi group and serenade her, give her flowers, be there for her, confor her, be her friend , lover and confident, write her letters, take her on vacation, go out with her to the places she likes, visit her at her place 4 times a week, cook her dinner and try to please her and make her happy in every way every single day??
I mean, I met this wonderful girl and thats what Im planning to do if she becomes my girlfriend someday...
anyway, I've heard that when you treat girls that well they kind of feel like floating and they might dump you, that they can take you for granted...
But I can not imagine myself treating her in a different way...what should I do??
2006-09-08 13:24:28 · 13 answers · asked by alvarito8 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best boyfriend I ever had treated me like that!!! It was wonderful! I treated him like that too though. It's important, no matter how you treat each other, that you treat each other with respect first. If you genuinely like each other why wouldn't you want to do all these nice things for one another? Just make sure the girl you are doing all of this for feels the same way about you. If you do all of this for some one you trusted blindly and they didn't deserve it you could end up with a broken heart and be out a lot of money. All for a girl who didn't deserve it. I'm not saying she doesn't deserve it, but just be careful. If you trust her and she really loves you go for it! It's sweet. And most girls do love it...no matter what they say. We don't need it, but we like it. One person did say something kind of important earlier. He said, (not in these words) don't do anything you're not going to do forever. That's important because if you suddenly stop she may think something is wrong in the relationship and become unhappy. Just look out for you. Good Luck!
2006-09-09 16:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by sunnydayzd 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. Girls are looking for guys with acres of tattoos and several pounds of piercings. A long criminal record (with a violent felony or two thrown in for good measure) really helps, too. It's also very much in your favor to not have a job. You should also spend more time and money on your Harley or your souped-up Impreza than on her. Smoke like a fiend. Use the most foul, most vulgar, most obscene language you can muster around her. Get drunk alot. Wear dirty, torn, worn-out clothes. Cut your hair very, very, very short. Be the most worthless piece of clinton you can be.
Dress "Black" by wearing your clothes at least fourteen sizes too big. Don't tie your shoelaces. Make sure the waist of your pants hangs well below your buttcrack. Wear your hat backwards-- it will make you look "different" from everybody else. Act as "Black" as possible by liberally using the terms "Yo Yo" and "What up, G?" and any of the too-numerous others as often as you can in her presence. Consult any rap album for the latest usages. Again, use the most vulgar the most often. Do all these things, and you'll have her eating out of your hand-- I promise. You will not fail. Now, go out there and get that girl!
2006-09-08 20:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by christopher s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all girls want to be treated this way - like a princess! But it has to be from the right guy.... if she feels the same way about you, then go for it! But if she doesn't, you might be driving her away with all your attention! Maybe pace yourself and test the waters a bit.. see how she responds to your actions, then judge from there..
Girls do like NICE guys deep down. The thing that maybe turns us off is a guy who's too easy to control, who's at our beck and call, who's always there.. know what I mean?!!
2006-09-08 20:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by Veronica 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be genuine, first of all, and be sweet. Be kind. You do not have to buy her things or send a mariachi group to serenade her.
Just be there...and the rest will come to you as time goes on.
2006-09-08 20:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that u treat someone how they deserve to be treated if she is a wonderful person then u treat her like a princess.
2006-09-08 20:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by hottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she does not appreciate you acting that way for her, promise you will leave her and find a lady who will appreciate you. too many men treat women badly. you are rare. don't waste it. if she takes you for granted, look elsewhere.
2006-09-08 20:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by foxfirevigil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a prince and treat her like a princess, what else?
2006-09-08 20:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hell no...first when you guys break up you will be very bitter, because you have spent all that time and money and you get nothing in the end...second no!
2006-09-08 20:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by Rob G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all that is good but the first time you don't do all that she will get mad the 2nd time you don't do all that she will leave you been there done that
2006-09-08 20:27:40 · answer #9 · answered by easymoney 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you can't keep up for the long haul.
2006-09-08 20:29:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋