Ok my b/f and I both went to college, but we went to different colleges 3 hours away. Things are actually really good except one thing. My b/f is going to school with a friend of his, who is a girl. I call him and he is always over there. He says they watch movies and hang out and that there isn't anything, but something just doesn't feel right. This girl does have a b/f, but it just seems that when i call him, he always wants to go right away. Please i need help!
2006-09-08 13:17:26 · 12 answers · asked by meangel15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are having doubts ...let it go. You are in college so go date and have fun. this is not the time for a serious relationship
2006-09-08 13:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by cuteGIRL01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on your college education, after all, it is costing someone money to send you there. The boyfriend thing, and going to different schools won't work out. It will be more of a distraction for you. Break it off with the current boyfriend, rather than cheating on him, then if time allows, find someone new at the school you are attending . Your instincts are probably correct about the bf, so instead of putting up with him lying to you, make it easier for the both of you.
Usually when people go out with each other in HS, then get ready to go to college, they make all kinds of promises to each other of how they will stay with and love each other no matter what. It's time to "get real"! This is a new chapter in your lives, so meet new people, new loves, etc. If in the course of time you and the old bf were meant to be, it will all come "full circle", and you will be better off for it. Voice of experience!
2006-09-08 13:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys have girls for friends and visa versa, however if you feel that he is actually more interested in spending time with his girl..friend then talking to you, well then that may be a problem. Does she actually have a boyfriend or is that what he has told you. Maybe it is time to turn the tables on him and tell him that you have met a male friend yourself and he has asked you if you would like to hang out with him. See what his reaction would be. If it is not a reaction you are after then move on as he isn't worth it!
2006-09-08 13:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think it sounds fishy it reminds me of my ex hubby who cheated on me. I was told once to go with my gut feeling it usually is right. You are young still enjoying life & date others for awhile. When you meet the right person you will know it you'll have inner peace. Best wishes... By the way one more bit of advice get the book why men love bitches it is handy & humorous.
2006-09-08 13:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just consentrate on the job in hand, your college work, if your 3 hours away from your b/f you cant see him 24/7, SO you either trust him or dump him, if he is allways with her then he may not be bothered about your relationship, you stick your head into your studying, let him contact you, & if he dosent then you know the answer, let go hes not worth it, good luck,
2006-09-08 13:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it does sound pretty fishy, but if you trust him then you dont have nothing to worry about! Now I would b worried because if she has a bf and he is always with her, then mayb he is her bf... i may b wrong but, if she has a bf why isnt she with him more??? ask you bf about that, just bring it up casually and ask him where her bf is if they all hang out?? because that is a possiblity too that they may all b hanging out together, and then that would releave your stress..... i hope everything works out good luck! :o)
2006-09-08 13:21:53 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ LEILANI ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm I'd be suspicious too! Wheres her boyfriend when he with her? Maybe you need to make a little surprise visit sometime.
2006-09-08 13:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him. tell him what is upsetting you. tell him how you really feel. and if he really is hanging with this girl and getting a clser realationship than slap him and walk out on him. lol
2006-09-08 13:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dammit, why things have always to be like this? i don't know it depends how much you trust your b\f, he maybe cheats, maybe noy, it's just wasting time with her because he's boored, but i can't tell u for sure...TALK to him! and try to sort something out, to be sure that he's not cheating.
2006-09-08 13:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by X36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him...
tell him what you feel and how you feel when he hang out with that girl...
maybe he think that's alright with you that he's hanging out with that girl....
wish you luck...
2006-09-08 13:25:16 · answer #10 · answered by nakitamaganda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋