No really.....I don't have it Thank God !! But I do know a couple peeps who do.
How soon should you tell someone u got "the thing" ? Do u tell them right
away and risk scaring them off ? Or do u wait until they like you more ?
I just want to know what ya'll think ?.........
2006-09-08 13:13:01 · 8 answers · asked by CraZyCaT 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely not on the first date, but the topic needs to be broached before they hit the sheets. It is kind of scary to bring it up right away, since not all dates end up with a relationship or sex, so there is no need to bring it up too soon.
However, it is important to bring it up before the couple has sex, so that they do not get caught in the moment. This way, they will have enough time to take precautions, so that the other partner is protected and informed.
In cases like that, I would suggest waiting some more to have intercourse, and bringing it up when the couple already feels comfortable with each other.
2006-09-08 13:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by jimbell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any respect for yourself and the person that you like, you tell them right away. If you were to wait until the other person starts to care, then you're only going to wind up hurting them and you. Definitely don't want to do that, either. If they still want to see you after they know, then at least you've been honest and they know! Good luck and God Bless!
2006-09-08 13:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by kevin_p0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 11:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that they need to know right away so that way they at least know that your first and foremost going to be honest right from the start...and also in case they do overlook that fact...then they can take measures to prevent the spread.
2006-09-08 13:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.Allen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait a little while before telling them, but definitely before you start having sex they need to know and I don't mean 2 seconds before either.
2006-09-08 13:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by happy_cute_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over the phone..it sounds like something difficult to say in person, but at least you are informing the person
2006-09-08 13:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by materialgurl102 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they need to be honest and tell them right up front trust and honesty is part of a realtionship. If they can't handle it then they shouldn't be with them anyways
2006-09-08 13:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by Scott J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it a secret......after all, it's the gift that keeps on giving!
2006-09-08 13:18:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋