My boyfriend and I of almost five years just broke up and he is treating me like I did him dirty and acting all stupid like I broke up with him for someone else and I told him that our relationship was going thru to many ups and downs and I think that we are better off being friends and he take as I said f*** you but I still love this dude with all my heart but the relationship is not good as us being boyfriend and girlfriend.
2006-09-08 13:11:37 · 9 answers · asked by JUICY T. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he loves you he'll let you go....
he'll think about your happiness first before his...
but if you love him, you'll try your best to make your relationship work....., never give up your love ones...
2006-09-08 13:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by nakitamaganda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't be, you went with him for 5 years and then ended it - you broke his heart girl. That being said, if it's over, it's over and both of you have to move on. I suggest some distance and time, maybe after some time has passed you two can be friends but not now.
2006-09-08 20:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remind him of the 5 yr relationship and that you still feel close to him and that shouldn't be an insult.
Ups and downs happen in any relationship, even best friends have arguments and different opinions. That's what make both of you 2 unique is that both of you are individuals and should respect eachother for that
Hope this helps.
2006-09-08 20:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by LVieau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys seem to not be able to handle rejection very well. guys hate to be dumped, they automatically think it is because of another person. now he is an ex for a reason, find someone else who will treat you like a queen.
i know easier said than done, but good luck
2006-09-08 20:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by Stacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do what feels right for you. That doesn't mean you love him less. Hopefully in the future he will see this too. Maybe you'll eventually get back together who knows. Good Luck
2006-09-08 20:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by happy_cute_mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget him you know what they say there are more fish in the see and you do not need to be treated that way and have more self respect for yourself than that.
2006-09-08 20:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan Wilson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say Take a break from it all. Then make some major decisions. It dont hurt anyone to take a breather.
2006-09-08 20:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough situation. Well he will have to move on
But 5 years
thats a long time to be with someone then realize you dont need to be with them
Im just sayin
2006-09-08 20:13:54 · answer #8 · answered by Xae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay... stop and breathe, then move on.
2006-09-08 20:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by nieceenee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋