why is it that when i'm in bed trying to sleep, my husband a**e's on the computer for hours???

Answer 1

Don't listen to most of the answers on here, some people don't feel happy unless there putting others down and for alot of the people who gave you an answer there doing it because its easy for them to hide behind there PC and hurt you, don't go jumping to conclusions he might not be looking at porn, he may just be chilling out just innocently surfing the net, we've all done it, well i have anyway you know after a busy day I'll just look at sites on the net in the evening, my partner will go to bed and i might stay on the PC, lose track of time, the hours just fly by when your on the net, Ive done it and not once looked up porn. x

Answer 2

If you're sleeping, how do you know he's on the computer? And if you're trying to sleep what difference does it make if he's not ready to sleep? I wouldn't be so much worried as to what he's doing, if I were you I'd worry about what it was that I wasn't doing! I got a great solution! Stay up with him and give him a reason for being tired so he'll go to sleep!lol Give him something else to divert his attention away from the computer! Nameley you! Good idea?

Answer 3

I wouldn't get too mad at him, I do the exact same thing. I put the kids down to sleep, make sure his lunch is ready for the next day, take a shower and relax in front of the computer. First the bills, then read email then I come here! Maybe he's doing the same?

Answer 4

if i was you id take a good look at your computers history (click the little arrow next to the back button for previous page) if all looks good there id sit your husband down (not on the comp chair) and ask whats going on ? maybe the sparks gone for him and you need to both make the extra effort to get it back, try it and if it don't change id reckon its probably over, sometimes even the best relationships need extra work , either way im sure you'll find the answer. good luck

Answer 5

Drop down in front of him at the computer and blow him. Tease him him,make him fall out of his seat. Promise more of the same the next night, do it, watch porn together for fun. You are a real live girl, the computer is a cold hard thing that looks like a tv but is not a tv.( It's an evil version of it, he he he ) If he still wants porn drill a hole in the screen for him to F U C K it and leave him for a real man.

Answer 6

Oh bull just because your husband stays up doesn't mean he's watching porn just because alot of your husband's are that way doesn't mean others women's husbands are like that sometimes when I'm in bed my husband gets up because he can't sleep he usually comes down stairs and watches TV or plays his games don't listen to the people that talk about him doing porn their are men out there that don't like that crap I know mine doesn't like porn and neither do I he probably just can't sleep don't worry about it I do the same thing if I can't sleep I get outta bed alot of people just can't lay in bed if their not sleepy don't worry about it

Answer 7

The obvious answer may be porn, but it depends on what he does online. Does he play games? Those things can take up more than a bit of time and are hard to walk way from. No matter what you do online, it can become extremely addictive.

Answer 8

Some people assume porn, maybe he is gaming, Maybe he is in a chat room about something that interests him,( not porn, maybe cars, animals, or such) Why don't you ask and see what answer you get. Move the computer in to another room (if it is in the bedroom) Just ask why is it necessary to be on when I am trying to sleep. does he work a different shift than you.

Answer 9

He's probably just using that time to himself to unwind. Most people need a little alone time. Both my ex-fiancee and my current boyfriend have a certain amount of time each day they spend on the computer to unwind. I know I need my unwind time as well. Unless he's ignoring his other responsibilities to be on the computer, I wouldn't worry about it.

Answer 10

I do it because my wife is a frigid cow, and I get wound up if I go to bed with her while she's awake, as I'd like to have sex, but stand more chance of winning the lotto. So I wait until she is asleep, then when I go to bed, I know there is no chance of getting some, so I don't stress over it.

So are you a frigid cow??