every time me and boyfriend get into a serious argument all he has to say is "i don't know waht to say, if you feel like not talking to me anymore, then fine" and it is just so annoying beacause in the middle of our conversation he will ask me "so what are you going to do, leave me now?" and i find it to be extremely annoying. Why does he ask me these questions during an argument? does he really want me to leave him? Is he afraid that i will? Has anyone else experienced something similar to waht i am going through? Please share!!!
2006-09-08 12:39:04 · 11 answers · asked by kamieshac99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's probably insecure. It sounds like he's paranoid about you leaving him. Talk to him and set him straight. Tell him that you don't want to leave him, but you will if he gives you reason to.
2006-09-08 12:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds immature. Usually guys like this isnt ready for a real relationship. Are you saying things like "Im not going to talk to you anymore" or "if something dont happen then Im leaving".
It really seems he doesnt realize what he has with you. I have a friend in the same situation. I explained to her to do what she wants and stop acting like she cares what he says. Start going out and not letting him know where you go. That worked. It got his attention. The tables have turned and now he doesnt tell her he dont care if she leaves or not. He is trying to get her to stay. He has actually started telling her things about his day.. he used not to do that. Good luck to you.
2006-09-08 12:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by Keith Perry 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beware of a relationship like this. He will do the same thing if you marry him. He's avoiding discussing the problem so he won't have to do anything about it. My advice is to find someone who will talk things out and have it behind him. It clears the air and makes both parties feel better.
2006-09-08 12:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 22:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by fleitman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being immature and expects you to be the one to beg and plead to communicate. He is doing this because you allow him to do this. Explain that communication is the only way to resolve an argument and that walking away from it leads to nowhere. He is not putting forth an effort to communicate in a mature and understanding manner and is simply behaving childish.
2006-09-08 12:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by cryingrainbow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He says that because he knows that you're really not going to do that. It's an immature thing to say. Kind of like when kids say, "Well, fine, I'm not going to be your friend anymore."
2006-09-08 12:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by it's me! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bcus he doesnt wan a go thorough it cus hes a a lzzy son of a beepppp
2006-09-08 12:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by Dragonfly :) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my ex used to that too. after awhile i starting thinking maybe i do what to leave.. so thats why he's my ex. its annoying as hell. just cause you fight doesnt mean its over, but after hearing it so much thats what it becomes
2006-09-08 12:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah he probably has someone else and wants u to look like the bad person and leave first, so he treats u like **** and makes u think ur crazy when its him.........
2006-09-08 12:47:14 · answer #9 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pack it up ....youre toast
2006-09-08 12:41:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋