We have been together for 3 years now and she wanted to take a break. She still loves me but wants to make sure its not just because we were together for so long. I know what some of the problems were with the relationship and I know I can take care of them. I know she needs time to think but I'm pretty lost without her I know that she is the one. I want her to know what she wants and to feel the same as she did. Tomorrow we are going to a concert together in Philadelphia and I am going to be myself I want it to be like our first date all over again. I want it to be special for both of us and I am going to just be a good friend while there and resist trying to get her back. Suggestions on how to handle this what to and not to do
2006-09-08 12:36:06 · 10 answers · asked by jsnpasty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look if after three years she has not figured it out, she will never. I know it sounds harsh, but be done with her. If she is okay taking a break now, she will do that after you are married. If she is not commited now, she will never be. If a relationship is right you should know it without seperating. You need to get rid of her and find someone who knows what she wants and who can make up her mind.
2006-09-08 12:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. What a coincidence! I'm actually going through the same exact situation! My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, and decided it was time to take a little break to make sure we're still right for each other. But we're not going to a concert tomorrow. We are going to the Utah State Fair. It will be like our first date all over again too. So, here's a couple suggestions of what I am expecting vs. what I don't want him to do tomorrow... Be nice. No matter what. Don't make a big deal out of ANYTHING. Buy her a souvenir or something. (It'll let her know you still care about her and want her back, and want to continue to make memories together.) The best thing you can do is just tell her how much you still love her, and that you know she's the one for you. Good luck!!
2006-09-08 12:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by alanna801 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your together for 3 years now she wants to make sure your the one and breaks up with you? I don't know you girl but it sounds like a head game...Imagine what marriage will be like. I know its easier said than done but stand her up at the concert, if she comes knocking at the door the next day then she's the one.
2006-09-08 12:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is cruel and also you need to experience free she is lengthy gone. you'll discover someone who will love you and may want to in no way do this to you. you need to have smacked that telephone out of her fingers and laughed at her even as she replaced into picking up the products.
2016-11-25 21:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF SHE ASKED FOR SOME TIME WELL THEN LET HER HAVE IT. U SOUND SO CUTE... I LOVE THE WAY U THINK,,, JUST HAVE A GOOD TIME DON'T RUSH IN TO GETTING HER BACK SHE WILL COME ALONG OK. wELL GOOD LUCK, AND HAVE A GREAT TIME.
2006-09-08 12:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be yourself sometimes couple forget why were still together, companinship, scared to be alone or you just get use to eachother...I hope things work out for you and if they don't you will be ok....She just wasn't the one....
2006-09-08 12:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I SAY YOU DO A "SOMETHING ABOUT MARRY" BEFORE GOING OUT... I DONT CARE WANT ANYONE SAYS.. IT WORKS!
2006-09-08 13:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by tru1120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, your the guy she was telling me about....damn, she's hott!!
next time, make sure she shaves!!!
2006-09-08 12:39:06 · answer #8 · answered by City slicker 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell here you feel
2006-09-08 12:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
GOOD LUCK
2006-09-08 12:38:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋