ight my friend is 18 and theres this girl that likes him...except the wierd part is...shes 13...and i mean hes actually considering going out with her. and hes going to collage here pretty soon and shes still a freshman in highschool. russell, the friend, wants to know what he should do. but im the one who has to tell him what he should do. but i dont know how to answer him. i would say NO but what would you say he should do? please help and all answers are welcome.
2006-09-08 12:33:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, there are plenty of girls in college. Unless he likes jail.
2006-09-08 12:35:11 · answer #1 · answered by Jen G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it's pretty sad that a near grown man is with a little girl. He's sad.
Just give him the phone number of a lawyer. He's an adult so ANY sexual contact with her can be construed as statutory rape or molestation. What's worse, what if he breaks up with her and they fight and he DOESN'T touch her; she can still accuse him of doing something. It doesnt' matter if he did it or not, he will be arrested.
He will be arrested and this will go on his permanent record. It could keep him from jobs, college placement, and even credit applications. It could cost thousands to fight it.
If a little girl barely old enough to have her period is worth it, he is the dumbest man ALIVE. She may be cute, but he'll be cute to the prisoners when he's in jail. It happens all of the time.
2006-09-08 19:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are this little just has a crush on him. Make sure that he knows that if he does date her, he could do some serious jail time. I know its only 5 years difference, but there is a big difference in like 13 to 18, and like 26-32 . Tell him to totally just tell this little that maybe when she's older like you know 21 he will date her...
2006-09-08 19:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by addybme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your friend which he would prefer: 4 years in college or 14 years in prison! Part of becoming 18 is knowing what the law says about being 18! Don't forget to tell your friend to register to vote. =0)
2006-09-08 19:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kingdom_Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, would tell him to back UP, and fast. Jail Bait isn't anything nice. You don't know if her parents or parent will do, to this Russell if they find out. It could be very costly in the long run.
Doesn't he know of any girls in college? Why is he lurking around middle schools? Anyways I hope he thinks with his upper head,and does the right thing....anyways try and have a nice weekend
2006-09-08 19:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by Dimples 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO 13 is illegal for him he could get into real trouble if the parents want. Tell him it's not a good idea at all. If he's going to college tell him he'll meet someone there he doesn't need a child for a girlfriend.
2006-09-08 19:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by happy_cute_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think twice before going out with someone that young. If anything happens, he could be charged with molesting a minor and it would be on his record for his whole life (just something to consider). I know 13 year olds are much older minded now so he has a lot to think about.
2006-09-08 19:36:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't think it's a good idea, and that you understand that he likes this girl, but he's going to college! this is the time when guys leave their girlfriends, because there is so much opportunity out there.
2006-09-08 19:37:24 · answer #8 · answered by Lyssa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend had a similar problem, she was 13 and the guy was 19 and it all ended in bad. She was ruined and he didnt take her seriously becasue she was immature, tell your friend to forget about it.
2006-09-08 19:38:36 · answer #9 · answered by DREAMER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to wait five years then date her she is too young for his age 13 will get you 20 years
2006-09-08 19:38:32 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is love,he has to cosider the law but,who cares about the law anymore.i say love is love and if you love them....why not?
but then again thats a big difference,2 or 3 years is alright but...i say tell him to get to know her more,or tell the girl that you just want to be friends
i love you cameron and i hope your friend does whatever comes from the heart
2006-09-08 19:48:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋