2006-09-08 12:31:10 · 19 answers · asked by lovegal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lovegal, You wanna know if you are really in love. There is a difference between infatuation and Love. Infatuation is getting attracted to the glamour of a person. Love is a measure of compatibility between two persons. Usually infatuation always dominates us. So generally we overlook compatibility which in due course may lead to break up.
There is a difference between a teenage love and a matured love. Matured people look for compatibility teenagers look for glamour. Infatuation takesover ones mind if not handled properly. It happens like once we like a person for his glamour we start thinking of person because we like thinking about him. The percentage of your mind occupied by these thoughts increases every time we think. Finally if we feel at a later stage that we are not compatible it will be very difficult to take those thoughts out of your mind because they will be everywhere.
So if you want to be have a long term relationship find the person who has a thinking like you. If not exactly atleast to a acceptable , adjustable degree. Have a crush which does not crush your life. BEWARE.
2006-09-08 14:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by Murali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know for sure! Love is something special, and no one can take that from you. But I am 16 and my bf is 19! We have been together for 1 year and 6 months. We are in love completely, and we hope to be together for ever. He even wants me to have his children after I graduate and start college. But it is very special, and when you find that person you will know. Your heart will tell you who is there and will always be there.
2006-09-08 19:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have that cant live without him/her feeling that crawls through you just thinking about them? Does your heart beat a hundred times faster when they look at you, touch you, say your name?
Do you ever feel like you are drowning until that someone is in your sight again? Quiver at the thought of being held watching some kookie movie on tv?
Do you feel like you are floating on air when you are with this person? or feel so totally there when you are just doing the every day things in life that couples do? or have that cant live without you feeling in your heart when they arent with you at that moment?
Do you think of all the things that you can do together that would make both of you happy at the same time? or try to think of what you could do to make that person compfortable or be supportive of them when they make a choice regardless if you think its stupid or not if it makes them happy?
Then you are in love....
2006-09-08 19:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by cowgirlduchess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is something that you just know. No one taught you to be sad, or mad, or happy did they? You will know love when you feel it. Probably the best way to describe it (which is a futile thing to do) is where you are willing to do almost anything for their best interest. Love isn't just a feeling, its a connection between people. Its really hard to describe in words, you just know.
Have a nice day :-)
2006-09-08 19:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by drewfranklin4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the two of you are planning a future together and you trust each other and still cant wait to see each other. Anything other than that is one-sided and unfulfilling and ya need to move on.
2006-09-08 19:38:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dream about that person 24/7. You get insomnia. You heart beats faster when u see that person and your body gets warm and u get very nervous talking to that person. Pyaar nahin, tho kuch bhi nahin. By the way, r u indian?
2006-09-08 19:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by Confused Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hasn’t this question been asked and answered like 500 times already? Why do we have to endure reading these repetitive recycled moronic questions? Is there some contest going on to see how many times the Answers community can ask the same idiotic question?
2006-09-08 19:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
When you are not yourself in everything you do but just keep thinking about your partner. When you longed to see your partner even when you have just seen each other. When you do anything, you have your partner in mind first. Then you are IN LOVE
2006-09-08 19:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by dolphin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know for certain of anything, then what for you are wasting your time on it?
2006-09-08 23:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be above 22 and have a source of income
2006-09-09 01:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋