just recently my friends boyfriend died...i liked him a lot......is it okay for me to cry?
2006-09-08 12:23:13 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes it okay for you to cry!!! Im really sorry to hear that!
2006-09-08 12:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is ok to cry anytime you feel sad. Crying is expected when a friend dies. Just try to do your crying at a time when your friend is not around. Not that you should hide it from her, but she will need all the support you can give her.
2006-09-08 12:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crying is definitely acceptable. This is one way may people release the tension and pressure of grief. Once you get through the crying moments, you will have a lifetime to remember the memories of a great friend.
So go ahead cry --- cry by yourself or cry with your friends
2006-09-08 12:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you need to cry it is natural to feel sad over the loss of a friend. you might still feel like crying for awhile you will feel better after a good long cry. don't worry about it. do you and your b/f talk about the friend? cause that is ok to do. it is something you both need. do you think your b/f needs to cry ? that's ok too. just because he's a guy doesn't mean he has to hide his feelings. just be there for one another. i will keep you both in my prayers.
2006-09-08 12:40:42 · answer #4 · answered by susieq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..Hon..It is defiantly okay to cry..Last year my very first boyfriend passed away and it was horrible..even though I was married and had children i cried my eyes out..and my husband actually comforted me..It was very understanding of him..But You can cry..and no one has to know it was because you yourself liked him..You could be crying for your friend..I am so sorry to here about your loss... :(
2006-09-08 12:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by crazyinlove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes its ok to cry, just make sure that you cry with her, so that she knows your hurting for her as well as her boyfriends , and his family.
2006-09-08 12:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by addybme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is! It's a human emotion, have a cry for me too. Try and have a nice weekend
2006-09-08 12:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by Dimples 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok to cry. It is ok to cry if you feel sad. The only time it's not ok to cry is when you are simply feeling sorry for yourself and you want attention. And losing someone you love is not one of those times.
I'm very sorry for your loss.
2006-09-08 12:58:29 · answer #8 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its ok ive tried bottling things up like that and after a while the urge to acton you feeling leaves and you become insenseative others and yourself so for your on helth and life CRY
2006-09-08 13:18:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by all means yes.... anytime you lose someone close to you feel free to cry... my best friends grandpa passed away and at the funeral i cried, but then he was like a grandpa to me too....
still it is ok to cry because your friend lost her bf and you lost someone you liked as a friend also.... so i say cry all you need to.
2006-09-08 12:26:41 · answer #10 · answered by myownlittlelonlyworld 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋