Ok so their is this guy at my school who I like. I am the kinda of girl who is shy and afraid to tell people that I like him.. Ok so this boy in my class keeps asking me who I like and I will not tell him because his best-friend is the guy that I like and this guy that keeps asking me has the biggest mouth in the world. So finally he asked mey best friend who I liked and she told him. Now he has gone and told the guy that I like. I am so mad @ him. What should I so deny or don't lie and tell him the truth.
2006-09-08 11:55:43 · 18 answers · asked by ~*Kt*~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you like him, then tell him the truth. Who knows, he might like you too; but if you deny it, then you will never know. Always tell the truth, if you lie, it may destroy something that might have been beautiful. When I look back at when I was in high school, there were a lot of guys that I liked but never told them, so they never knew...ever since i been wondering..."what if." Don't be mad, just be honest.
2006-09-08 12:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by lil_l2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think its a good idea to tell him you like him & that it could lead to the outcome you want ,then why not be brave & go for it... you can be quite casual about it... & just say, yeah i like him , he's cute, so what...?
You can like someone without it having to be a big deal or meaning that you must want to do anything about it! But if you wanna let him know you can in a friendly relaxed flirty way & that leaves it open for him to show if he's interested too...
if you dont wanna say you like him... then i wouldnt deny it.... they wont believe you & you'll be embarrassed... you could either say in a really flirty way... "yeah i like him, i like loads of people" to diffuse the focus from him... or you could to say to his loud mouth mate... yeah i like him but actually i really like you & then (sarcastically) pretend to be madly in love with him to (hopefully) shut him up...
& if i were you... id make your friend buy you chocolate croissants & coffee in the most expensive cafe in town for being such a blabbermouth (maybe you can settle for a can of coke & a chunky kit-kat if she's skint!!!)
good luck... remember the important thing is to not get uptight about it... if it gets awkward you'll feel crappy... just keep it light & have fun :)
2006-09-08 19:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend the whole situation never happened! Ya got to be strong with this one! If the guy says something to you about it, give him the answers to his questions! Be straight up! I would have a talk with my best friend, though! But then again - maybe she did you a favor? Wait and see!
2006-09-08 19:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by Blond Logic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEFF don't deny it.. what's the worst that could happen and this is your chance. and it sounds like you're mad at the wrong peson, you knew this kid has a big mouth, but your friend shouldn't of said anything.. that's completely over the line, she had no right.
2006-09-08 19:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the truth if he asks,if he's going to be a jerk about you liking him then he's not worth liking because he's just going to be immature and stupid.
2006-09-08 18:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like your best friend is also a blabbermouth...be mad at the source of the leak!
2006-09-08 18:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest to him because ive figured out thats the easiest way.. i am the same way im shy and i dont tell guys that i like them when almost the same senario happened so just ... be honest
2006-09-08 19:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by Chelsea:] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont lie tell the truth and it might work out
2006-09-08 18:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by munchgin94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the truth
2006-09-08 18:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by lttlbt22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought school has already started again - hasn't the Migration Of The Idiot Teenagers Back to School already taken place? Don’t you little morons have homework to complete?
2006-09-08 18:57:10 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋