How do u know if ur man is cheating?

Question

I dont know if its my insecurities or if i really have something 2 b concerned about. Whenever I question my boyfriend he always gives general answers. For example, if i ask him what where he went, his answer would be somewhere n then i hav 2 almost grill him 2 get exactly where out. should i worry

Answer 1

not yet ,..but i would be watching im carefully if he gets back later than ususall

Answer 2

Let's face some hard cold facts here. Most often, by the time a woman starts to feel there is cheating, there is.

I wouldn't grill anyone over cheating. If you don't trust someone, you won't ever. Trust is very important in a relationship and is harder to rebuild than a Lego building ran over by a lawn mower.

If you really feel he is cheating on you, trade cars with someone you know, pop on a man's shirt and a baseball cap and follow him once or twice only. If you don't find anything wrong, either let it go, or let him go.

You will almost never get a man who is cheating to admit it, they already have a pattern of lying and you will never keep an honest man by treating him like a suspect.

Answer 3

First of all, if you have suspicions, and it's driving you to "grilling him," you're with the wrong guy. The right one leaves no reason to be suspicious. If it's that you're insecure, you, and only you can (and should) deal with that. If he's cheating, and you're normally secure in a relationship, trust your intuition. It may not seem logical, but it's right 98% of the time.

Answer 4

Oh that's easy pretty much every guy cheats. Whether he seals the deal with sex or not is besides the point. As guys we're mentally screwing a different girl every few minutes. Some chick just walked by my office and guess what? I'm doing her right now and she doesn't even know it. Ain't life grand.

Answer 5

If you think that he is doing something wrong, somehow he has changed. Your intuition is telling you that something is up...listen to it.. Here's a great test to know the truth...pretend as if you don't care about what he is doing, where he goes and so one, for maybe one week. By week two, if he is doing something he will start to accuse you for cheating!!! If he is innocent he will appreciate the time away from all of those questions.

Answer 6

sounds like hes testing you to see how jealous you are. Think about this A man is going to cheat no matter what you do or say so dont stress yourself over it and if your not jealous 9 out of 10 he wont cheat and if he does he will feel bad and tell you. Dont be jealous it will just drive him to cheat.

Answer 7

1. If he doesn't answer your phone calls more than usual
2. If he makes unusual faces
3. If he becomes irritable at certain questions
4. If he doesn't make time for you and there isn't any reason to do so (e.g. family reunions, final exams, work overtime)
5. If he comes to you smelling with women's perfume not from you and not intended for you.

You'll probably know it from the grapevine.

Answer 8

If you don't know for sure, then he probably is.
You can ask him why he refuses to answer you. It's not your business, but you were curious and he won't tell you things unless you really push.
If he isn't cheating on you he should have no problem telling you so. Why do you think he is?

Answer 9

Possibly, but he could just be one of those people that doesn't like explaining themselves.
Signs of cheating are;
1) excuses
2) calls less
3) never able to reach him
4) not home until late

Answer 10

Well,I'm not trying to be mean or nothing like that.If you had 2 grill him then order for him to answer you,so you shouldn't have to worry about him then!!!

Answer 11

the smell of perfume on his clothes....to tired to do anything with you more than once in a while, not giving a straight answer when asked...being late more than once in a while,
and if you find lip stick on his dip stick then you know his is cheating.